I couldn't do that... not even to her. I think it's always better to show a wicked person that the world is not as cruel as they are. She is manipulative, narcissistic, and sociopathic. She is in every way a terrible person - but I'm not, and I'm not going to act like one. But I was. Will she change like I did? ...No. But someone has to give her that chance, to be the one who prays for Satan.
Everyone knows her now for the liar and the monster she is. She's powerless to do any further harm. There will never be a shortage of people who hate her in their very souls. I'd choose to be perhaps the only person to show her love. Otherwise, who else would?
I would let her know that I know exactly what she is, and then kiss her and hold her close, warmly and lovingly, anyway. I would show only love, warmth, and kindness, and that nothing she is, nothing she can do, will ever change that or bring me down to her level. Revenge might be more satisfying, but what good is there in bringing more hate into the world?
She is subhuman filth. She doesn't deserve love, care, or affection, and I'd make sure she knew that every day despite giving it to her anyway. If there's even the faintest, most deeply buried capacity for guilt in her, I like to think eventually it'd be enough to make her cry. Her only choices would be to live in a state of constant guilt, or to try to become someone who does deserve it. There's hope for even the worst people to change. Most of them won't, but all of them can, and that's why I don't believe any of them should be given up on. How can I turn my back on even the worst of the wicked, the forsaken, and the damned, when I numbered among them once?
It's easy to be kind to those who deserve it. But sometimes doing what's hard is far more rewarding. And nothing bad can come of being kind to someone, no matter how evil and undeserving they are. Whatever happens, the result either way is that there is more love in the world.
...If we were talking about an ugly old man and not a hot chick, I probably wouldn't be saying all this, but still.
While I wouldn't say that your mindset is wrong exactly TheGentleQuartz, it's a nobel and ideal way of thinking, but it's not a realistic way to approach a horrible person.
''And nothing bad can come of being kind to someone, no matter how evil and undeserving they are.''
This statement just isn't true, if you give a wicked person an inch, they shall take a mile. Offer shelter to the wrong types during a storm and they'll stuff there pockets with your possessions. Do something nice for an abusive lover and they'll demand it become standard treatment. Offer comfort to an egotistical type and they'll only become more full of themselves.
For every action, there is a positive and negative reaction, and that includes acts of kindness. Something bad can always come from your choices and actions, doesn't mean it always will of course...But to say ''nothing bad can come of being kind to someone'' is simply untrue.
To be kind does not mean to be foolish or naive... sometimes it does not even mean to be nice. Sometimes, far from cutting them slack, it can mean refusing them or turning them away. I admit I got too idealistic, and you are right, sometimes it comes at one's own detriment, or requires sacrifices, but I stand by my assertion that it's worth it. Isn't it better to take a chance and end up as the only person who believed a liar, than to be one of the many who didn't believe a person who turned out to be telling the truth? And I do think there are ways to be kind which carry little risk. Sometimes, the best thing you can do is just to let someone know that, if they ever choose to change their ways, there will be at least one person who will forgive them.
And I do apologise for my inaccurate statement. In my life, I usually see evil only at a distance, which makes it easy to get too idealistic, and I recognise that people in situations in which they are being abused or taken advantage of could be harmed by such misguided statements.
There's no need to apologize, I simply wished to play devil's advocate and offer a different view on the topic. Mind you, those are more or less my own thoughts and views, but I'm aware that I'm not exactly a nice person either so take them with a pinch of salt.
I do hope however, that you receive the sort of care and thoughtfulness from others that you seem to display here, and that bad experiences don't end up causing you to lose that kindness and grow jaded. Bad people aren't the only ones who can be changed after all, and it's surprisingly easy to turn into something you were once against without noticing.
Really? You've always seemed perfectly pleasant from what I've seen of you.
Thank you, but I'm not really bothered what people give back to me. Like I said, no-one's actions can change me. This is what I've chosen to be. I used to be bad, I used to be jaded, and I grew kind. I know the things I don't want to turn into, because I have been them, and I'm never going back. What I am is not what my experiences make me; what I am is a promise.
Difficult to imagine you being a bad person honestly, but I suppose that just speaks to just how much you've managed to change. But good on you for your accomplishment and your resolve to stick to the person you've manage to become, few can pull that off and avoid slipping back into the person they use to be.
@Some_Slutty_Fox, Heh, I suppose we have rambled a bit about some rather odd stuff for a porn site. But I think the conversation is more or less wrapped up, so no worries.
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Everyone knows her now for the liar and the monster she is. She's powerless to do any further harm. There will never be a shortage of people who hate her in their very souls. I'd choose to be perhaps the only person to show her love. Otherwise, who else would?
I would let her know that I know exactly what she is, and then kiss her and hold her close, warmly and lovingly, anyway. I would show only love, warmth, and kindness, and that nothing she is, nothing she can do, will ever change that or bring me down to her level. Revenge might be more satisfying, but what good is there in bringing more hate into the world?
She is subhuman filth. She doesn't deserve love, care, or affection, and I'd make sure she knew that every day despite giving it to her anyway. If there's even the faintest, most deeply buried capacity for guilt in her, I like to think eventually it'd be enough to make her cry. Her only choices would be to live in a state of constant guilt, or to try to become someone who does deserve it. There's hope for even the worst people to change. Most of them won't, but all of them can, and that's why I don't believe any of them should be given up on. How can I turn my back on even the worst of the wicked, the forsaken, and the damned, when I numbered among them once?
It's easy to be kind to those who deserve it. But sometimes doing what's hard is far more rewarding. And nothing bad can come of being kind to someone, no matter how evil and undeserving they are. Whatever happens, the result either way is that there is more love in the world.
...If we were talking about an ugly old man and not a hot chick, I probably wouldn't be saying all this, but still.
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''And nothing bad can come of being kind to someone, no matter how evil and undeserving they are.''
This statement just isn't true, if you give a wicked person an inch, they shall take a mile.
Offer shelter to the wrong types during a storm and they'll stuff there pockets with your possessions.
Do something nice for an abusive lover and they'll demand it become standard treatment.
Offer comfort to an egotistical type and they'll only become more full of themselves.
For every action, there is a positive and negative reaction, and that includes acts of kindness.
Something bad can always come from your choices and actions, doesn't mean it always will of course...But to say ''nothing bad can come of being kind to someone'' is simply untrue.
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And I do apologise for my inaccurate statement. In my life, I usually see evil only at a distance, which makes it easy to get too idealistic, and I recognise that people in situations in which they are being abused or taken advantage of could be harmed by such misguided statements.
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Mind you, those are more or less my own thoughts and views, but I'm aware that I'm not exactly a nice person either so take them with a pinch of salt.
I do hope however, that you receive the sort of care and thoughtfulness from others that you seem to display here, and that bad experiences don't end up causing you to lose that kindness and grow jaded.
Bad people aren't the only ones who can be changed after all, and it's surprisingly easy to turn into something you were once against without noticing.
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Thank you, but I'm not really bothered what people give back to me. Like I said, no-one's actions can change me. This is what I've chosen to be. I used to be bad, I used to be jaded, and I grew kind. I know the things I don't want to turn into, because I have been them, and I'm never going back. What I am is not what my experiences make me; what I am is a promise.
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@Some_Slutty_Fox, Heh, I suppose we have rambled a bit about some rather odd stuff for a porn site. But I think the conversation is more or less wrapped up, so no worries.
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