NESBoy
09/16/19 01:17AM
I need to get a kink out of my head...
Hey. So, I've been having this slight problem that's been bugging me for a bit.

I have this partner who is a really nice guy, and we try to RP almost anything together. But as of recently, I find myself on this sort of "high" with cuckolding. Er, rather, being cucked. I don't really know how it got in my system, but recently, it's been a kink that's really turned me on.

However, I really don't want to be turned on by this kink. I feel it's rather mean spirited and even my partner is not really a fan of it.

Basically, I want to get this kink out of my head because I feel it's ruining me and my partner's RPs. I don't know how I'd go about doing that though. Do I just not think about it?

Any advice would be appreciated, I thought I'd come to the forums seeking this sort of help.
zamasuapologist
09/16/19 01:19AM
In my experience, the only thing that can get you out of a kink are either a shitload of discipline and willpower or having a bad time with it. Either way, it's not easy.
NESBoy
09/16/19 01:30AM
zamasuapologist said:
In my experience, the only thing that can get you out of a kink are either a shitload of discipline and willpower or having a bad time with it. Either way, it's not easy.


I've been trying to use willpower to get me out of it, though it's not really working all that well...
zamasuapologist
09/16/19 01:32AM
NESBoy said:
zamasuapologist said:
In my experience, the only thing that can get you out of a kink are either a shitload of discipline and willpower or having a bad time with it. Either way, it's not easy.


I've been trying to use willpower to get me out of it, though it's not really working all that well...


Try harder. Think that you're still at a point in which you can rationalize the kink isn't good for you. Let a bit more time pass and you may not think the same.
NESBoy
09/16/19 01:34AM
zamasuapologist said:
NESBoy said:
zamasuapologist said:
In my experience, the only thing that can get you out of a kink are either a shitload of discipline and willpower or having a bad time with it. Either way, it's not easy.


I've been trying to use willpower to get me out of it, though it's not really working all that well...


Try harder. Think that you're still at a point in which you can rationalize the kink isn't good for you. Let a bit more time pass and you may not think the same.


Alright, I'll try using some discipline when I think about it then!
zamasuapologist
09/16/19 01:35AM
NESBoy said:
zamasuapologist said:
NESBoy said:
zamasuapologist said:
In my experience, the only thing that can get you out of a kink are either a shitload of discipline and willpower or having a bad time with it. Either way, it's not easy.


I've been trying to use willpower to get me out of it, though it's not really working all that well...


Try harder. Think that you're still at a point in which you can rationalize the kink isn't good for you. Let a bit more time pass and you may not think the same.


Alright, I'll try using some discipline when I think about it then!


Good luck. Do your best and you'll succeed.
NESBoy
09/16/19 01:42AM
zamasuapologist said:

Good luck. Do your best and you'll succeed.


Thanks! Any tips on how I should discipline myself?
zamasuapologist
09/16/19 01:43AM
NESBoy said:
zamasuapologist said:

Good luck. Do your best and you'll succeed.


Thanks! Any tips on how I should discipline myself?


Craft a self-reward system, in which you reward yourself for being disciplined. Each time you manage to stay away from temptation, buy yourself something nice or grab a snack you regularly wouldn't, to pick a few examples.
NESBoy
09/16/19 01:46AM
zamasuapologist said:
NESBoy said:
zamasuapologist said:

Good luck. Do your best and you'll succeed.


Thanks! Any tips on how I should discipline myself?


Craft a self-reward system, in which you reward yourself for being disciplined. Each time you manage to stay away from temptation, buy yourself something nice or grab a snack you regularly wouldn't, to pick a few examples.


Alright!
zamasuapologist
09/16/19 01:48AM
NESBoy said:
zamasuapologist said:
NESBoy said:
zamasuapologist said:

Good luck. Do your best and you'll succeed.


Thanks! Any tips on how I should discipline myself?


Craft a self-reward system, in which you reward yourself for being disciplined. Each time you manage to stay away from temptation, buy yourself something nice or grab a snack you regularly wouldn't, to pick a few examples.


Alright!


Don't expect instant results. Discipline is something you craft with lots of hard work. You won't win the first battle, but keep struggling to win the war.
jltbl
09/16/19 01:54PM
It might be a shitty idea but maybe you could try to find an other more innocent kink that you might like more than being cucked.
LongForeskinLover
09/16/19 06:50PM
That's not how this works. Your kinks are your kinks and you're just going to have to come to terms with what gets you off. There's no magic solution to turning that off no matter what anyone says in this thread. Sorry.
very_niceee
09/16/19 06:56PM
You can't really suppress a kink as it will just make it stronger.

It would be better to embrace it, fap about it a few times and maybe the excitement will ease off a little.

But if you worry about a kink, it will always be in your mind.
zamasuapologist
09/16/19 07:12PM
The people above me gave up. You can do better.
LongForeskinLover
09/16/19 07:50PM
zamasuapologist said:
The people above me gave up. You can do better.

Tell me, does gay conversion therapy work? Being gay is not a kink but it's the same sort of way the brain works. You can not control what turns you on. Same way pedos can not just turn off liking children. Stop bullshitting OP and giving them false hope.
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