Rule 34 - sub/dom conversations

bytor680

07/16/19 11:02AM

sub/dom conversations

so i just now started following a few kink communities and i really want to start talking with people there but i'm really shy and ive never done anything of the sort before. Can anyone give me some pointers/ share their experiences/ etc on this? it feels kind of overwhelming and idk where to start

kroganbitch

07/16/19 11:28AM

bytor680 said:
so i just now started following a few kink communities and i really want to start talking with people there but i'm really shy and ive never done anything of the sort before. Can anyone give me some pointers/ share their experiences/ etc on this? it feels kind of overwhelming and idk where to start

if you're a sub, talk to other subs first! its much better to talk to other people with your kinks before you talk to people on the other side of your kinks lol

Fdawer

07/16/19 03:42PM

bytor680 said:
so i just now started following a few kink communities and i really want to start talking with people there but i'm really shy and ive never done anything of the sort before. Can anyone give me some pointers/ share their experiences/ etc on this? it feels kind of overwhelming and idk where to start

be brave. Click on there name. If you are responding to a request go ahead and just act nice and be hey. You still doing that rp or soemthing like that. Or if you just are talking to someone. Ask if they are down to chit chat because they seem nice or cool. Really all about self confidence.

bytor680

07/17/19 12:05AM

kroganbitch said:

bytor680 said:
so i just now started following a few kink communities and i really want to start talking with people there but i'm really shy and ive never done anything of the sort before. Can anyone give me some pointers/ share their experiences/ etc on this? it feels kind of overwhelming and idk where to start

if you're a sub, talk to other subs first! its much better to talk to other people with your kinks before you talk to people on the other side of your kinks lol

i feel stupid for not coming to that conclusion myself lol, thanks :D

kroganbitch

07/17/19 12:10AM

bytor680 said:

kroganbitch said:

bytor680 said:
so i just now started following a few kink communities and i really want to start talking with people there but i'm really shy and ive never done anything of the sort before. Can anyone give me some pointers/ share their experiences/ etc on this? it feels kind of overwhelming and idk where to start

if you're a sub, talk to other subs first! its much better to talk to other people with your kinks before you talk to people on the other side of your kinks lol

i feel stupid for not coming to that conclusion myself lol, thanks :D

lol its okay

I'm a sub if you want to message me

Red_Raider

07/17/19 12:25AM

I recommend talking to folks who identify as either while you're figuring it out, and then once you want to have a conversation with a partner in any context go for the gold standard here: enthusiastic consent and mutual understanding.

Antivenin

07/17/19 04:21AM

Well luckily I've recently found a girl who's a dom after the past 3 rps we had. And finally a huge dom at that, it's hard to find anyone like that since most are sub around here.

Attempted her dom kinks like worship, name calling, and petplay and it was very enjoyable. She loved it as well, despite the one liners along with adding context. But I'm not an ass on ghosting anyone. Plus what are the chances of finding anyone like that.

For now, I just remain as her pet for as long as she likes.

MazoPrincess

07/18/19 02:50PM

LewdV1RUS said:
Well luckily I've recently found a girl who's a dom after the past 3 rps we had. And finally a huge dom at that, it's hard to find anyone like that since most are sub around here.

Attempted her dom kinks like worship, name calling, and petplay and it was very enjoyable. She loved it as well, despite the one liners along with adding context. But I'm not an ass on ghosting anyone. Plus what are the chances of finding anyone like that.

For now, I just remain as her pet for as long as she likes.

I’m glad you were able to find a domme, it seems like there aren’t many of us around here. Enjoy being her pet, boy! ^^

Antivenin

07/18/19 03:08PM

MazoPrincess said:

LewdV1RUS said:
Well luckily I've recently found a girl who's a dom after the past 3 rps we had. And finally a huge dom at that, it's hard to find anyone like that since most are sub around here.

Attempted her dom kinks like worship, name calling, and petplay and it was very enjoyable. She loved it as well, despite the one liners along with adding context. But I'm not an ass on ghosting anyone. Plus what are the chances of finding anyone like that.

For now, I just remain as her pet for as long as she likes.

I’m glad you were able to find a domme, it seems like there aren’t many of us around here. Enjoy being her pet, boy! ^^

They aren't really and thanks, I'll enjoy it. It's fun to be her pet only for her pleasure.

hot_sauce

07/18/19 05:15PM

THE kink community to join for kink is Fetlife.com

MazoPrincess

07/18/19 05:18PM

hot_sauce said:
THE kink community to join for kink is Fetlife.com

Lol, I recommended fetlife to someone recently. So now my vote is seconded :3

BoySlave

07/18/19 05:25PM

MazoPrincess said:

hot_sauce said:
THE kink community to join for kink is Fetlife.com

Lol, I recommended fetlife to someone recently. So now my vote is seconded :3

Arguably the best place to join to find like minded individuals in your area. Join a group, join them for lunch and talk to people safely. ^^

SexCuresCancer.

07/18/19 05:28PM

I probably wouldn't mind joining

Antivenin

07/19/19 01:53AM

Well for irl nearby reasons, I attempted it. As for any hookups, they really take it very seriously. They even told me about any life threatening risks they had.

It's understandable right there, especially when they want more things than just a verified account.

bytor680

07/19/19 02:14AM

BoySlave said:

MazoPrincess said:

hot_sauce said:
THE kink community to join for kink is Fetlife.com

Lol, I recommended fetlife to someone recently. So now my vote is seconded :3

Arguably the best place to join to find like minded individuals in your area. Join a group, join them for lunch and talk to people safely. ^^

well i live in an almost third world country so i dont think that would work as well lol