outaouais said:
I don't think there's been ANY input, so far, from female (hetero') members, as @YourAvgAnon had ideally hoped for... along with pretty much all the straight guys... curious, looking for their insights, opinions, tastes...

Unfortunately, I think it may be the title of the thread, "Showers or growers?". A woman might read that, and think, "There's nothing for ME, here. The guys are just having a simple, straightforward 'Poll of Poles', just to see which is more common."

SUGGESTION 1: Once a thread has started, on the forum, is it possible to go back and change - or add to - the title? If so, I would like to request that @YourAvgAnon go back and add something like "female views welcomed too!".

SUGGESTION 2: We've DEFINITELY got guys on this thread, but I think - perhaps because the girls (& their input) are CONSPICUOUSLY absent - there's a presumption that all the contributors, so far, have been straight. If you're a "some-variation-other-than-straight" male, and you're not too bashful to say so, why not make a point of sharing YOUR perspectives. At least until the girls arrive - if they EVER arrive! - it'll give us some variety and breadth. And - who knows? - the straight guys MIGHT just learn something, in the process.