Ladies: showers or growers? Why?

Fellas: are you a shower or a grower and how do you feel about it?

I'm a grower, it's great because there are no expectations beforehand so when you grow to a good size it's always above their expectations

Plus no bulge when you aren’t hard

Yes

I don't refer to it as "penis"
I call it my longsword.

No one ever referred to it as anything in this thread yet, call it what you like

MY LONGSWORD

I'm a grower and I'd have to agree with Johnes that at first it doesn't seem like much, but when you've got it hard I can see said partner being more surprised and feel even better about what they'll experience. Not really dissing showers cause the partner already knows what they're getting and can enjoy it that way. I guess part of the feeling is how your partner feels about it I suppose. Staying confident as a grower stays in the back of my mind.

I used to be a grower, but after using penis pumps for about a year, one of the side effects is that you lose that elasticity. Erections consist of me getting girthier and girthier, but only a little longer. I love the look on my partner's face as it thickens so much. It's like the opposite of a normal erection.

Grower.
I like it: It's big when i need it to be, and in its smaller state i won't be bothered by my boxers all the time.

I don't think there's been ANY input, so far, from female (hetero') members, as @YourAvgAnon had ideally hoped for... along with pretty much all the straight guys... curious, looking for their insights, opinions, tastes...

Unfortunately, I think it may be the title of the thread, "Showers or growers?". A woman might read that, and think, "There's nothing for ME, here. The guys are just having a simple, straightforward 'Poll of Poles', just to see which is more common."

SUGGESTION 1: Once a thread has started, on the forum, is it possible to go back and change - or add to - the title? If so, I would like to request that @YourAvgAnon go back and add something like "female views welcomed too!".

SUGGESTION 2: We've DEFINITELY got guys on this thread, but I think - perhaps because the girls (& their input) are CONSPICUOUSLY absent - there's a presumption that all the contributors, so far, have been straight. If you're a "some-variation-other-than-straight" male, and you're not too bashful to say so, why not make a point of sharing YOUR perspectives. At least until the girls arrive - if they EVER arrive! - it'll give us some variety and breadth. And - who knows? - the straight guys MIGHT just learn something, in the process.

What do these terms mean?

Shower (like show-er, not like the alternative to a bath) - a penis which is large and prominent while flaccid as well as when erect.

Grower - a penis which is unassuming while flaccid, but is large when erect.

I'm a grower and then a show-er.

Oh.... Thanks ^^ Yep, I definitely read that as THAT shower :| and since they seemed like rhyming words I read grower as if it would rhyme with said shower..



Now that I know the terms, I think I prefer growers, it seems sexy to me. Nothing wrong with either though. (Coming from a non-straight guy)