boytpy123
04/21/19 07:09AM
what do you do when your down but you cam't get hard?
earlier I was playing a game fought the final boss for atleast a hour and a a half probably more and eventually gave up...I contimplated and now I feel fine weirdly...and now I can...well yeah so what do you guys do when your down but can't get erect or can't jack off?
Shortstackbreeder
04/21/19 07:13AM
Note: I am not a professional and I do not have experience with this issue
Might just be your mental state, or you might need viagra, i dont really know, I am not a doctor. I would leave it as is for a day or two, and if after two days you have the same issue, I would seek professional help. Best of luck,

-SSB
bipface
04/21/19 08:56AM
boytpy123 said:
playing a game … fought the final boss for atleast a hour and a a half

wait … that's your euphemism for fapping?
outaouais
04/21/19 09:34AM
Fair warning: this approach will not be for everybody
I feel I need to offer a disclaimer, like @Shortstackbreeder, above. What I say, here, is based upon my own, personal experience, and my limited medical knowledge. Though I AM qualified as a Registered Massage Therapist, my clinical perspectives do not replace the more comprehensive view a general practitioner (medical doctor) might offer.

STATE OF MIND: From your own comments, I think that the most likely cause - AND source of a solution - lies within your state of mind, both conscious and unconscious (the latter is harder to acknowledge, and to work with, but still VERY relevant). Any emotion, or mood, or memories evoking these - consciously, in the back of your mind, or deeper - can distract you and cause you to lose focus. You can deliberately use it to your advantage, when trying to prevent yourself from coming... UNTIL your partner's had her orgasm (I recommend that as policy: she will invest more time and effort in keeping you coming - time and time again - if you make sure she "gets there"). A prolonged, intensive video game battle would have raised your levels of anxiety, tension, anger, &/or (even) fear. Just because your conscious mind has stopped playing the game, it doesn't mean that your adrenaline levels have come down yet. Instead of the negative distractions you might use to delay an orgasm - like imagining your granny's porno' shoot - distract yourself with positive or neutral thoughts. Just like pressure you put on yourself to perform well sexually, with a partner, can create "performance anxiety", by yourself, you might be "too wired", on a deeper level, accidentally (but temporarily) sexually handicapping yourself. Explore your mental state thoroughly before you consider anything below this line.

STATE OF BODY: I've already talked about trying to drop your adrenaline level, so that's biochemistry. There's a possibility it's a "mechanical" problem (or partly so). Since you didn't report any numbness or tingling, it's PROBABLY got nothing to do with your nerves (your body's electrical system); but a problem with circulation (blood &/or lymph) could make your "mental block" worse (or vice-versa). If you've ever been seated in a tight position on a bus or plane, for a long period of time, and gotten an uncomfortable hard-on, in the (now) limited space in your trousers, then, you've experienced a "kink" in your circulatory system. You can usually move around and "shake it off". But, it also can work in the opposite way, where the right amount isn't getting to your equipment. Again, movement will generally sort it out. If you brought this issue to a massage therapist, they would probably work a lot with your lower abdominal muscles, your front and inner thighs &/or check there's no congestion in your inguinal lymph nodes (high up your inner thighs). They will almost certainly NOT work on "the organ" itself. THAT is for other people... and the difference between a (therapeutic) massage "practice", and a massage "parlour". :)
Biflexible_male
04/21/19 11:09AM
Out of curiosity, what game was it?
boytpy123
04/21/19 10:16PM
Biflexible_male said:
Out of curiosity, what game was it?


hm....a rather old one called punch out and when I say ounch out I mean the wii one
boytpy123
04/21/19 10:17PM
bipface said:
boytpy123 said:
playing a game … fought the final boss for atleast a hour and a a half

wait … that's your euphemism for fapping?



I mean it's like it's hard not to focus on anything else for me at ti es even when im taking a break...
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