So just gonna come right out and say it, i have a really small penis. Micropenis, in fact. I haven't been "diagnosed" by a doc or anything but it doesn't take a PhD to figure it out. The problem is that I wanna be in a relationship but it's no secret that women have needs that require satisfying. I can do the first steps of the process but I always have it in my head that there's no point because of sex isnt good shes not gonna want to stay so I stay away from relationships. Idk what to do or think here, and i can't really go anywhere else. At least here im anonymous

I'm gonna tell you something.

When a woman loves you, your penis shouldn't matter in a relationship. Sex is fun and everything, but it shouldn't be the base of your relationship. If you can't make them happy with your dick, make them happy with your personality.

I would agree with this for the most part but I feel like for a woman to feel love for you takes a long time and running on personality might tough. Idk man, going maybe years with unsatisfying sex doesn't seem likely to me. Hope you find a chick who doesn't give a shit about sex

I'm sure you've heard of cuckold relationships. This is probably the best solution, not tell him that he needs to find an asexual woman.

This, my dude. Sex ain't everything, and if she really loves you, she'll know that.

Wrong chat.

I know, I had both this and the RP thread open with the intent to post in both, and got the wrong message in here. I'm a dumbass, sorry. CX

If anything I'd prefer an asexual girl over a cuckolding relationship. Sex isnt a big deal for me but I know it is for people which is what im trying to highlight as a problem. She may love genuinely love me for who I am but there will always be something that I cant offer to get and eventually shes gonna want to look for it somewhere else. The only people who can go the rest of their lives without good sex are asexuals so yea thats probably my best bet but also probably never gonna happen

This is pointless until you find the girl. Only she will know how she feels about your penis. People with 3,5,7,10 inch penises aren't guaranteed to satisfy a girl. It could be too small, not thick enough, too big, not her preferred shape etc. Sure, you have it much harder from the start, but it's your penis and you can't change it, so might as well embrace it and work on the stuff that you can change. Like your Oral skill, Fingering, maybe even try getting a Strap-on. It sounds weird, but if Lesbians can have a sex life without a penis, so can you. (Sorry if it's harsh).

As a guy I can pretty much guess how it feels having a micro penis, but it shouldn't stop you from enjoying sex. There's always a way, with the right partner.

Simple solution: learn how to use your fingers and tongue.

Pricey solution: buy a cock extender or even a strapon.

Moronic solution: try going in for a fetish you might not ever even be into, and which might drive away a woman who wants to make a genuine connection with you, because someone on the internet didn't know there are more options than just 'cuckold' and 'have no sex'.

Yea, I'm blown away someone actually said that, talk about being immensely retarded. "Penis ain't big enough, better be a cuckold." Absolutely pathetic response.


~Either way, it's extremely important to talk to a sexual therapist about this, most people who don't wallow in sadness until the end, and that's not a road you want to go down.

It's quite possible there's surgical procedures, medicinal aid, or maybe even physical aid like regular penis pumping that could gain you back some/all of your confidence. That with proper sexual education and things may end up being right as rain, but you have to be brave and get help.


Remember, people are born with defects all the time, some small, some major. But that's all they are, defects. Modern medicine can help many people regain part or all of the life they should've had back. Don't sit wallowing in depression while drowning yourself in pornography when you can make steps to improving your situation in the real world today.

Also, don't bank on finding a fairy tail partner someday who'll love you no matter what. That shit is movies/media, not real life. Hope is great, but depressed people use hope as a crutch and stop making choices/moving forward. Take charge, get on the phone, set up an appointment. By this time next year your entire life may be different and you'll owe it to yourself for making the first steps.

Try a strapon. Any woman worth sleeping with won't care about it and just wants to get fucked one way or another. A woman that you stay with will love you no matter what and won't care if you have sex with one on.

Alternate solution: Find a woman with a micro-vagina, yes they exist, it's just less noticeable so it might be harder to find a woman who has one, though they probably don't know that they have one so it might be a challenge.

On sites like these, every post seems to be about the fantasy of huge cocks fucking tight holes - which is great - but that absolutely is not where the world of sex begins and ends.

Let me offer you some personal experience. I had a wild phase in my early 20s where I hooked up A Lot. I've seen all sizes of penises, seriously. I was fuck buddies with this guy for like 6 months who was around 3~4 inches - you want to know why I kept hooking up with him? It wasn't because of his personality, no offense to him, but it was honestly some of the best sex I've ever had.

He was so fucking amazing, he gave the best head of my life - this man ate my pussy out like it was his last meal every time. He also was super kinky and we'd have long and hot sessions where he'd tease and play with different erogenous zones on my body. There is sooo much to sex aside from penetrative sex honestly. I'm just going to say this too, for a lot of women it's difficult to reach climax through penetrative sex alone. It feels great, it's super fun, but there's a reason most women have vibrating wands and not just fat dildos in their drawers.

I know it's tough, a lot of media and porn is sending you messages that you're lesser than - but it's all bullshit. Stimulation in the vaginal canal is great - but stimulation on my clit? That's legit how you get me screaming. Just listen to women and learn about our bodies. If a girl wants to write you off because of what size you are - too bad for her honestly bc she's probably missing out and fooling herself into having unsatisfying sex.

Like seriously, that guy made me rethink my entire sexuality and how I can receive pleasure. I still think about that guy and wish that we were more emotionally compatible!! The sex was That Good, he was an amazing dom. That's the realest advice I can give.

therooster.com/blog/havin...test-things-ive-ever-done

There are also women with a micropenis fetish. Not sure how you feel about being fetishized