For those unfamiliar, dubcon is when they like it and pretend not to, while noncon is simply them not liking it. So, given the choice. Which do you prefer, and why does it turn you on? I honestly don't like noncon unless I'm in a specific mood, but I can enjoy dubcon if it's done right. It's kind of like being tsundere.

I'm curious because despite the fact that I usually prefer consensual RP's, whenever I do an ad for something Noncon I get absolutley flooded with pms. What's so hot about noncon anyways?

I REALLY dislike noncon. Actually what confuses me more is not the people who are into doing the raping, but the ones who seemingly willigly RP as a rape victim, crying and screaming allover the place and not ever getting into it. Like what's the point..? How is the submissive getting any sexual gratification like this at all?

Now I love forced sex, intended rape, and playful dubcon at the start, but I will very quickly turn into a willing little slut.

Noncon, no contest. I'm into moderately dark fetishes so that's a no brainer.

Maybe they get some kind of gratification by resisting or by being overpowered. I honestly don't know what the thinking is behind it, maybe some people into noncon could answer that!

It's a fetish, like any other. Some people like the humiliation aspect, some are masochists who enjoy being hurt or controlled. It just depends on the person.

THIS.

But if you enjoy it, it isn't noncon.

I mean, we are talking about RP. My understanding would be that the person does not enjoy it in character, and acts the part, but is enjoying it IRL. There could also be an element of empathic enjoyment, where the "victim" plays up their displeasure for the benefit of their RP partner, deriving pleasure from the partner's enjoyment rather than their own.

Okay ya that makes sense. I just don't understand how someone would enjoy it IRL and then decide to play a character who doesn't. It doesn't make sense to me. But yea to each their own! :P

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Maybe they get some kind of gratification by resisting or by being overpowered. I honestly don't know what the thinking is behind it, maybe some people into noncon could answer that! [/quote]



That would be me. I honestly do love the struggle and eventually being subdued, still trying to to fight and all that while slowly giving in. It’s very fun for me, but at the same time it’s not all I do. That would get boring.

Maybe they get some kind of gratification by resisting or by being overpowered. I honestly don't know what the thinking is behind it, maybe some people into noncon could answer that! [/quote]



That would be me. I honestly do love the struggle and eventually being subdued, still trying to to fight and all that while slowly giving in. It’s very fun for me, but at the same time it’s not all I do. That would get boring.[/quote]

Agreed. It's no fun when the only thing your rp partner can do is submit and let you do whatever you want. I love a good struggle for dominance. (I like both noncon and dubcon btw)

I’m sorta into noncon because it’s more fun (and makes more sense) to fight back, although it isn’t as fun to only fight back and never submit, instead you have to slowly submit over time and be bratty even after submitting, that’s when the real fun happens as they try to pound you into submission. I don;t get people that try to rape me and then get all offended when I call them a gross perv like dude, you snuck up on me and grabbed me from behind while I was taking a piss so you could try and rape me, why am I suddenly your slave?