Rule 34 - Question for Transgenders

LeslieBabe

03/18/19 01:01AM

Question for Transgenders

What is something you got totally wrong or had no idea existed about the gender you transitioned into? Male to Female or Female to Male. Sure it depends on how 'successful' you were in how well people can tell that you are trans, but I still think there'd be a broader view of how things work with men and women.

Katsura_Kotonoha

03/18/19 01:03AM

LeslieBabe said:
What is something you got totally wrong or had no idea existed about the gender you transitioned into? Male to Female or Female to Male. Sure it depends on how 'successful' you were in how well people can tell that you are trans, but I still think there'd be a broader view of how things work with men and women.

Are you serious? Are you really asking this?

FemboyFucker~

03/18/19 01:21AM

(Female to Male here, about 5 years into transition)
It's a lot easier for ladies to transition into guys because we basically just get testosterone and we start growing facial hair, voice deepens, the whole nine yards.

One thing was that I had no idea how much of a brothership men have with other men most of the time, and how the sistership of women doesn't really compare at all, like ladies you all are so hostile to each other, no offense but I'm glad that whole thing is out of my life. A few weeks ago I jumped into a game of pool at a bar and after a good break at the start of the game I got a high five and lots of smiles. One of them said that it was easily the best break he's seen in years; I don't play pool much so it must've been a fluke, but still.

Another thing is how crazy hard/weird it is to go out with girls. Granted I do also like boys (hince my username) but I still want to go out with girls sometimes. Like WOW, I don't know how humans even reproduce with how difficult it is, first I gotta ask the girl out, i need to have money set aside, i need to plan the date, majority of the time I pay for both meals if we're eating out, and that's just if she says yes. I've had drinks thrown on me, some spit on my face, etc. The only redeeming experience is whether or not I score a date, my male friends either comfort me or celebrate, sometimes even just random dudes do the same thing, one guy named Gus bought me a couple shots after I got rejected, haven't seen him since but he was pretty awesome.

Another thing is how aggressive regular society is against guys. On my vacation to Hawaii a couple years back, I was taking photos of the beach and I got accused of taking pictures of kids! I had done this countless times before as a woman and not a peep from anyone! On my flight to Hawaii I was forced to change seats so that I wasn't sitting next to a child. Some random woman who had no relationship to either of us reported me, and I was forced to move to another seat. It was a stewardess too, I could've been this kid's dad or uncle, she had no idea, but I was forced to move.
Another time I was taking a bus home from a bar because I didn't feel safe driving, and I got screeched at because I dozed off with my legs open a bit. She said I was "An asshole who doesn't have the common decency to hold their legs closed and is taking up an obscene amount of space" For the record most of the bus was empty, and I was already squished up against a corner. When I looked down there was about 8 inches of distance between my legs. I almost punched her face in but I just got her to piss off.

I could give a few other things but I don't really have the energy right now. Might give it an edit later if I feel like it to add on.

LeslieBabe

03/18/19 01:23AM

Katsura_Kotonoha said:

LeslieBabe said:
What is something you got totally wrong or had no idea existed about the gender you transitioned into? Male to Female or Female to Male. Sure it depends on how 'successful' you were in how well people can tell that you are trans, but I still think there'd be a broader view of how things work with men and women.

Are you serious? Are you really asking this?

I don't really see the problem. It's something that people can talk about. A pretty valid topic as I see it. What's the issue?

Katsura_Kotonoha

03/18/19 01:25AM

LeslieBabe said:

Katsura_Kotonoha said:

LeslieBabe said:
What is something you got totally wrong or had no idea existed about the gender you transitioned into? Male to Female or Female to Male. Sure it depends on how 'successful' you were in how well people can tell that you are trans, but I still think there'd be a broader view of how things work with men and women.

Are you serious? Are you really asking this?

I don't really see the problem. It's something that people can talk about. A pretty valid topic as I see it. What's the issue?

I dunno. I just know a guy who would probably be very annoyed to read this.

LeslieBabe

03/18/19 01:32AM

Katsura_Kotonoha said:

LeslieBabe said:

Katsura_Kotonoha said:

LeslieBabe said:
What is something you got totally wrong or had no idea existed about the gender you transitioned into? Male to Female or Female to Male. Sure it depends on how 'successful' you were in how well people can tell that you are trans, but I still think there'd be a broader view of how things work with men and women.

Are you serious? Are you really asking this?

I don't really see the problem. It's something that people can talk about. A pretty valid topic as I see it. What's the issue?

I dunno. I just know a guy who would probably be very annoyed to read this.

If he's someone who can't handle a respectful post asking about the viewpoint of a marginalized community from someone looking to broaden their view on the world through peaceful dialogue then I probably don't want to meet them.

LeslieBabe

03/18/19 01:33AM

Eira said:

LeslieBabe said:

Katsura_Kotonoha said:

LeslieBabe said:
What is something you got totally wrong or had no idea existed about the gender you transitioned into? Male to Female or Female to Male. Sure it depends on how 'successful' you were in how well people can tell that you are trans, but I still think there'd be a broader view of how things work with men and women.

Are you serious? Are you really asking this?

I don't really see the problem. It's something that people can talk about. A pretty valid topic as I see it. What's the issue?

Maybe the fact this is a porn site? Go take your serious topics somewhere more suitable :p Most people are just here to have fun, not see any potentially heavy topics.

Its not a heavy topic. It's asking about some stories or views from people.

Katsura_Kotonoha

03/18/19 01:35AM

LeslieBabe said:

Katsura_Kotonoha said:

LeslieBabe said:

Katsura_Kotonoha said:

LeslieBabe said:
What is something you got totally wrong or had no idea existed about the gender you transitioned into? Male to Female or Female to Male. Sure it depends on how 'successful' you were in how well people can tell that you are trans, but I still think there'd be a broader view of how things work with men and women.

Are you serious? Are you really asking this?

I don't really see the problem. It's something that people can talk about. A pretty valid topic as I see it. What's the issue?

I dunno. I just know a guy who would probably be very annoyed to read this.

If he's someone who can't handle a respectful post asking about the viewpoint of a marginalized community from someone looking to broaden their view on the world through peaceful dialogue then I probably don't want to meet them.

Considering he's a member of said marginalized community...

fdbkr

03/18/19 01:37AM

Eira said:

LeslieBabe said:

Katsura_Kotonoha said:

LeslieBabe said:
What is something you got totally wrong or had no idea existed about the gender you transitioned into? Male to Female or Female to Male. Sure it depends on how 'successful' you were in how well people can tell that you are trans, but I still think there'd be a broader view of how things work with men and women.

Are you serious? Are you really asking this?

I don't really see the problem. It's something that people can talk about. A pretty valid topic as I see it. What's the issue?

Maybe the fact this is a porn site? Go take your serious topics somewhere more suitable :p Most people are just here to have fun, not see any potentially heavy topics.

Damn, didn't know people were forced to read them.

LeslieBabe

03/18/19 01:38AM

FemboyFucker~

03/18/19 01:39AM

Katsura_Kotonoha said:

LeslieBabe said:

Katsura_Kotonoha said:

LeslieBabe said:

Katsura_Kotonoha said:

LeslieBabe said:
What is something you got totally wrong or had no idea existed about the gender you transitioned into? Male to Female or Female to Male. Sure it depends on how 'successful' you were in how well people can tell that you are trans, but I still think there'd be a broader view of how things work with men and women.

Are you serious? Are you really asking this?

I don't really see the problem. It's something that people can talk about. A pretty valid topic as I see it. What's the issue?

I dunno. I just know a guy who would probably be very annoyed to read this.

If he's someone who can't handle a respectful post asking about the viewpoint of a marginalized community from someone looking to broaden their view on the world through peaceful dialogue then I probably don't want to meet them.

Considering he's a member of said marginalized community...

he can go fuck himself
Edit: correction: as a member of this marginalized community, he can go fuck himself. Leslie I'd making perfect sense here.
Edit 2: That was a bit rude. Sorry. I disagree with the logic your friend goes by if he isn't happy with a forum topic like this

FluffyTgirl

09/23/21 06:00PM

I'm male to female and I just never realized how much time girls waste on make up. There are just so may little thighs to worry about. Not that I don't like it. Just takes so much time.

Lothar_The_Elder

09/23/21 06:10PM

FemboyFucker~ said:
(Female to Male here, about 5 years into transition)
It's a lot easier for ladies to transition into guys because we basically just get testosterone and we start growing facial hair, voice deepens, the whole nine yards.

One thing was that I had no idea how much of a brothership men have with other men most of the time, and how the sistership of women doesn't really compare at all, like ladies you all are so hostile to each other, no offense but I'm glad that whole thing is out of my life. A few weeks ago I jumped into a game of pool at a bar and after a good break at the start of the game I got a high five and lots of smiles. One of them said that it was easily the best break he's seen in years; I don't play pool much so it must've been a fluke, but still.

Another thing is how crazy hard/weird it is to go out with girls. Granted I do also like boys (hince my username) but I still want to go out with girls sometimes. Like WOW, I don't know how humans even reproduce with how difficult it is, first I gotta ask the girl out, i need to have money set aside, i need to plan the date, majority of the time I pay for both meals if we're eating out, and that's just if she says yes. I've had drinks thrown on me, some spit on my face, etc. The only redeeming experience is whether or not I score a date, my male friends either comfort me or celebrate, sometimes even just random dudes do the same thing, one guy named Gus bought me a couple shots after I got rejected, haven't seen him since but he was pretty awesome.

Another thing is how aggressive regular society is against guys. On my vacation to Hawaii a couple years back, I was taking photos of the beach and I got accused of taking pictures of kids! I had done this countless times before as a woman and not a peep from anyone! On my flight to Hawaii I was forced to change seats so that I wasn't sitting next to a child. Some random woman who had no relationship to either of us reported me, and I was forced to move to another seat. It was a stewardess too, I could've been this kid's dad or uncle, she had no idea, but I was forced to move.
Another time I was taking a bus home from a bar because I didn't feel safe driving, and I got screeched at because I dozed off with my legs open a bit. She said I was "An asshole who doesn't have the common decency to hold their legs closed and is taking up an obscene amount of space" For the record most of the bus was empty, and I was already squished up against a corner. When I looked down there was about 8 inches of distance between my legs. I almost punched her face in but I just got her to piss off.

I could give a few other things but I don't really have the energy right now. Might give it an edit later if I feel like it to add on.

This is two-and-a-half years late, but welcome to our world, buddy :)

Lothar_The_Elder

09/25/21 02:28AM

Katsura_Kotonoha said:

LeslieBabe said:

Katsura_Kotonoha said:

LeslieBabe said:

Katsura_Kotonoha said:

LeslieBabe said:
What is something you got totally wrong or had no idea existed about the gender you transitioned into? Male to Female or Female to Male. Sure it depends on how 'successful' you were in how well people can tell that you are trans, but I still think there'd be a broader view of how things work with men and women.

Are you serious? Are you really asking this?

I don't really see the problem. It's something that people can talk about. A pretty valid topic as I see it. What's the issue?

I dunno. I just know a guy who would probably be very annoyed to read this.

If he's someone who can't handle a respectful post asking about the viewpoint of a marginalized community from someone looking to broaden their view on the world through peaceful dialogue then I probably don't want to meet them.

Considering he's a member of said marginalized community...

The above exchange is a great example of what drives me nuts about so-called "Allies": Someone asks a perfectly legitimate and as far as I can tell respectful question in the interest of increasing understanding, one I'd imagine a lot of if not most trans folk would be fine with answering, and a so-called "Ally" jumps in on behalf of a community they imply they're not a part of and tries to shut down the conversation entirely because they claim they "know a guy who would probably be very annoyed to read this". That's bullshit. If said guy is annoyed by the question at all, let HIM step forward and express his annoyance himself, ideally while explaining exactly what about the question he found annoying.

People who call yourselves "Allies", when someone directs a question at a marginalized community, be it trans, gay, furry, or whoever, LET AN ACTUAL MEMBER OF THAT COMMUNITY DECIDE WHETHER THE QUESTION IS OFFENSIVE OR NOT AND ANSWER IT AS THEY SEE FIT! As "Allies", when we need your help, we'll ask for it. If you're going to jump in and answer questions directed toward us in a way that makes us look like a bunch of delicate hot house flowers who can't handle questions or criticism, which the vast majority of us are not, then you're not an "Ally" to our cause at all and are instead acting as a saboteur to it.

I know, two-and-a-half years late, but the sentiment still stands.

Daedric_Princess

09/25/21 03:19AM

I had no idea that women's sizes worked so differently. That's about it, lol.