bipface said:
Hiro_Miro said:
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you refer to abstract, loosely-defined concepts and expect everybody else to have exactly the same idea of them as you do, or that people can read your mind.
i try to get a clearer picture of what you're thinking, and you respond with hostility.
speaking of family, i wonder how yours raised you to have such a rotten personality
Indeed, you have a point here but there’s a misunderstanding or maybe some lack of info from you. If you want the hots for someone of your family the ‘problem’ IT IS how you were raised... If you research you’ll realize that there even “success” stories where there are couples that they didn’t know they fucked/fell for/married their relatives; researchers started an experiment and come to a conclusion where it seemed that the less you interact/live with a certain relative there’s a chance that those two can fall in love... Let’s say, I had a cousin which I used to play with when younger, then we move to another place and we don’t see each other that often, parents divorce, time passes and by mere chance I make a match in tinder or any app, even if I happened to see a girl in a certain place and ask her out, I won’t be saying to my mom/dad right away: Hey! I’m gonna be dating this girl (show ‘em a pic or introduce her). I want things at my own pace, also the fact that sometimes exercise and even puberty hits like a train and makes a great job, I won’t know she’s my cousin because how much she changed (I know people who didn’t know they were dating their third cousins).
Apparently the romance stories between cousins are more common the less blood related they are.
Answering the topic, I used to (around 10 years ago) have the hots for an aunt and a cousin my age (According to my sister and her sisters, she somehow fell for me and even was planning to marry me when were older... That creeped me out. Though I kid you not, after failing to get a gf lots of times or being cheated on, I even reconsidered how to bring something like that into a convo with her. I know, out of my mind...)