Size isn't everything
While length does contribute to some factor, girth is a bigger factor. Remember the most sensitive area is the opening, the more it stretches and is stimulated, the better response you'll get.
In addition, shape plays a huge role. For all girls the g-spot is important, whether the woman knows it or not. A penis that curves upward and grinds the area is preferred to one that is straighter.
One final bit, a cock is preferred over any toy. Nothing beats the texture of a hard cock, no matter how many do-hikys you throw on a toy, cock feels better.
Length isn't everything, just enough to enter up to the g-spot (2.5-4 inches inside depending on the woman), with girth and shape being bigger factors. Beyond that it really depends on the girls kink and the man's usage.
...Though I do like a guy who can batter my cervix with merciless hard strokes... So like my bf, 7.5 inches or above is my prefrence... -///-