I'm a switch when it comes to dom/sub roles, and because of that my mood changes. I'm not always in the mood for full on submission, sometimes I like to be treated like a pet, sometimes I like to be uppity or stubborn, sometimes I like to be a loving and gentle dom, and sometimes I love the idea of 'corrupting' someone with kinky sex.
Sounds a bit scary but it isn't. I'm not into rape but I am into some struggling and tsundere-type behavior, I find it adorable when a guy or girl is blushing madly and loving every second of what's happening to them, but still trying to deny it anyway. This is especially fun with pegging and crossdressing, I'm kind of turned off if a guy is instantly willing to be pegged or if he's not at least a little embarrassed or reluctant to get involved in crossdressing.
My least favorite kind of sub has to be the kind who are lazy and don't do anything, don't want anything, and don't have anything interesting to bring to the table. On the same token I absolutely hate abusive doms. I am not okay with torture, physical or verbal abuse, I'm not okay with degradation, I will never degrade someone and I won't put up with being degraded. It's not sexy to me to be called a 'slut' or to start referring to a male as a female and feminizing all of his bodyparts with words like 'boipussy'. A man is a man even if I decide I want to see him in a dress, as a matter of fact, when I bring crossdressing to the table it's with the expectation that I'll be seeing a MAN dress like a WOMAN. I'm not turning him INTO a woman.
Sorry, that got a bit ranty but I've had a lot of bad experiences because of misunderstandings. Please keep in mind I like all genders, that includes transgenders, but my rant is referring to men who are supposedly straight and comfortable with being male. I'm not into the feminization stuff.
