Orphanim
01/10/25 06:55PM
question for those of us with high sex drives
would you date someone who is asexual if they you were compatible in every way apart from that?
anno
01/10/25 07:13PM
Honestly this a tough one for me but I have been in a relationship where my partners sex drive dried up for reasons I won't get into, and it's tough having a drive that your partner just can't satisfy. Ultimately I'd say no unless they were like my perfect partner in every other way, but realistically nobody's perfect.
Icy-Fur
01/10/25 07:24PM
I don't think so. If I have a boyfriend I need him to fuck me, and unless he's okay with an open relationship it almost definitely won't work
me_later
01/10/25 07:28PM
Only if they have SATA connectors.
midoriyas
01/11/25 04:19AM
maybe i just have anxiety... but honestly i think i'd be way too nervous to even ask for anything sexual in the first place @_@ i think i would just breathe in copium and just try to deal with it on my own time
AmyS
01/11/25 11:46AM
Absotively! It wouldn't even be a problem. I'd just have for fun sex with other people, and save all the cute cuddles and kisses for her. If some problem came up, we'd deal with it. That's how good couples do, and we'd be super good!
PiggyWhore
01/11/25 12:56PM
Impossible, as a matter of fact, its already hard enough to find someone that can match your freak EVEN if they already have a high sex drive...
Namezfx
01/12/25 12:47AM
Someone is what?
ILuvnerds
01/12/25 02:30AM
Honestly yeah, I sometimes even prefer being left alone to jerk off in peace instead of having to slowly ease someone into sex. I would however not be able to date without them being physically attracted to me. Knowing my partner doesn't find me attractive would definitely destroy me, asexuality isn't my issue
Artorius_Strange
01/12/25 05:38AM
Ah... It would be a problem because that's the thing with me. I need the satisfaction and the emotional connection in one package. I don't want to resort to cheating to get satisfied and relieved every time the urge builds up to a boil, so I'd rather spare them the trouble of being with me.

It's gonna be more problematic for them than for me.
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