FdUpMaster
02/18/24 01:39AM
Mail receivers
In the interest of improving general communication (especially since there's a related topic going around):

Mail receivers, what are some (perhaps less obvious) pet peeves that you have when reading a message that make you NOT want to reply?
IrishTgirl
02/18/24 01:52AM
1. people who instantly start roleplaying.
2. people who instantly start degrading me.
3. people who instantly ask me for discord.

I dont rp, I dont like being degraded and I dont use discord. It'd be nice if people would establish some communication first x.x
Shaded_Cube
02/18/24 01:59AM
I'm not much of receiver, but gonna pretty much repeat something said earlier today.

Some people on here think just because of where we are they can just just forget about manners and can be blunt. So someone will just send a message that only says "Suck my dick" and then get angry that person doesn't follow through.
AnonBoy69
02/18/24 02:04AM
Maybe about hyper rp, but often respond
TCallipygian
02/18/24 02:10AM
Right into RP turns me away (I don't really do it much), or stampeding into some specific thing based on either assumptions or not caring to know first.

Call it the demi- in me but I like to get to know someone a bit, suss out common interests, find something to connect on, before getting into the lewd stuff. Make no mistake, I really like it when we get there though.
scumpuppy
02/18/24 02:58AM
1. any kind of generic daddy/maledom account (super rough ones get a pass though, punch me pls <3)
2. "hey*
3. "wanna rp?*
4. any kind of conversation starter that isn't horny/cute and is just casual conversation; we're on a porn site not a zoom meeting ,w,
5. broken english
6. when they mistake me for some kind of mommydom??? fffuck off pal,,,,
Cock4Catboys
02/18/24 04:11AM
I'm a gay dom who likes femboys/twinks, my inbox is blowing up nonstop with super generic "please please please rail me" and "Hiiiiiii" DMs.
I do want to RP, but there's no way I can respond to every single one of you. You have to give me a reason to RP with *you*, and you have to tell me why you want to RP with *me*.
Tell me where on the site you found me and what made me stand out (surely there's something about me other than the fact I'm a dom).
And for the love of god, tell me what you actually *want*. I have some pretty extreme kinks, and if you show up in my DMs saying you'll "do anything", I have no idea if you're coming from the eye-hole guro posts or the rough vanilla sex posts. If you tell me you have no limits and want to get straight into the RP without letting me know what you actually want, you're leaving me wondering about what is actually too far, which means I'm not going to be able to go very far at all. If you want a rough dom who will beat the crap out of your character but treat you yourself like a human being, you have to actually give me permission to do the former.


Also, don't come off as desperate. I know that's part of the kink, but save it for after we've worked out our squicks and kinks. As it is, if you don't distinguish between what is and isn't RP or kink, you leave me having to assume that "please please I'll do anything you want" is a red flag for a clingy weirdo and not a kink thing.

And yeah, talk to me first about literally anything before you start trying to take it off site. I have a Discord and would be glad to move a conversation there once I get to know someone, but it's not the very first thing you should say. And I'm not on Instagram or Tiktok at all, don't even try (who even RPs on Instagram???).
Cock4Catboys
02/18/24 04:18AM
I don't actually mind when someone starts RPing off the bat, as long as it's not the only thing in the message.

You can give me some character details or set the scene in that first message, but put some OOC stuff in there, too, so I can talk to you about what you do and don't want.

Also, if you really do want to play whtaever kind of character I want, give me a menu of things to choose from. I want to give you a good RP experience of being thrown around and railed, and if you're not going to work with me on that, I'm going to ignore your message and go with one of the guys who will actually tell me what he's into.
Broken_Gizmo
02/18/24 04:20AM
IrishTgirl said:
1. people who instantly start roleplaying.
2. people who instantly start degrading me.
3. people who instantly ask me for discord.

I dont rp, I dont like being degraded and I dont use discord. It'd be nice if people would establish some communication first x.x

^This plus people who refuse someone NOT wanting to RP and replying to questions with just xxx or something that doesn't answer the questions or build on anything.
TCallipygian
02/18/24 04:26AM
Broken_Gizmo said:
IrishTgirl said:
1. people who instantly start roleplaying.
2. people who instantly start degrading me.
3. people who instantly ask me for discord.

I dont rp, I dont like being degraded and I dont use discord. It'd be nice if people would establish some communication first x.x

^This plus people who refuse someone NOT wanting to RP and replying to questions with just xxx or something that doesn't answer the questions or build on anything.


That too. Replies that don't evoke a response or ask a question are conversation killers. Broad shoulders aside, I won't carry a convo for very long; it becomes work.
Antivenin
02/18/24 04:36AM
I'm not much the receiver due to me being highly inactive for over a year. Mostly cause I lost the motivation, not just with the forum and occasional uploading. But just in general sadly, anyways remaining on topic...

The ones that give me a plain 'hi', 'hello', or 'how are you?". It just gives the sign that it's gonna be awkward silence right after so no point in saying anything to begin with.

If it's a sudden RP? Remain on the topic of what was originally replied about it, I often get annoyed when it's derailed to what's completely different of the series and/or theme. I tend to give an actual yes or no (even if it's a harsh) answer since I hate to seem evasive compared to most around.

If it's an actual conversation, clean or dirty? It depends if there's a spark of what to enjoy to keep it going. I'll admit I force myself and go with it, but I say something if it's too much or just 'ehh...'. I don't look for anything personal so I expect the same from those as well, regardless. I perfer permission.
FemaleHornyTeen
02/18/24 04:53AM
I get alot of mail about rp, I mainly just shitpost and say what I'm currently eating at the time. I do get some wholesome messages here and there though :3
iEkko
02/18/24 05:04AM
1. Anyone that makes me fill in all the blanks on setting up our roleplay scene. (If you don't reference shit and expect me to do all the prep work, then I'm not going to bother.)

2. One-line andies. You can do more than *humps you*

3. Asks for Discord / Insta / Twitter / Snap. (Nah, I'll add ya if you're a chill dude. But given the amount of douches on here ghosting me, I'm not bothering with invites anymore.)
EvilLaughs
02/18/24 07:46AM
My Inbox
*Literally empty*
LookingRP
02/18/24 08:04AM
You guys get mail?
I haven’t been here for a long time but they stopped people from sending or receiving mail still I was hoping to hit up people
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