Thats a question for the guys that this applies to them. Why do some guys feel intimidated by a woman wearing a strapon dildo to peg them even when they know its coming? Like its clear we wont hurt you, we just wanna fuck you and everyone has a good time.

I mean I’m not, I love getting pegged!

But, I could imagine some guys would be if they don’t have the experience with it? I could see that.

Cuz that’s a very new and unfamiliar experience for us. Having something shoved in us is a very uncommon experience for men. So it makes perfect sense that there would be some major apprehension

I'm just not a fan of anal. I'd rather not put my dick in it and I'd rather not have anything put inside my ass. it's just a comfort thing, the same reason you might not be a fan of some other kinks.

I understand but when they stress themselves it makes it take longer to relax them, like I thought it would be a common knowledge.

I perfectly understand and respect that

Well hope if anyone ever tried it that the would lose that feeling after their first try.

I haven't been pegged before, but interested in trying it. I'd imagine if it's us guys first time it can be intimidating though as it's something new and without proper technique and preparation, anal can be very painful

Never planning on being pegged myself but I can probably assume it's like those that are slightly scared of getting shots (needles) or the few minutes before having to barf.

I’d love to be pegged any day!

Not sure I understood the question right but could be either because it always feels a bit odd getting stuff up your ass or they might feel some shame?
Even tho I’ve played with my ass since i was a kid, if I haven’t done it for a while it takes time to get used to again

Well, depends on the context. If it's a guy's first time doing something like that, and especially if you had to convince him to give it a try, then it might be that he doesn't entirely trust you to go easy and fully respect his boundaries.

I mean, I think that goes for a lot of sexual activities though. If it's their first time, and their partner seems a lot more eager and experienced than them, then I'd say it's fairly normal to be concerned that their boundaries might get pushed to an uncomfortable degree.

I've never been pegged, and really wanna try it, but I'd probably be nervous for that exact reason, too.

Getting pegged by a girl is awesome because the entire time she could be balls deep inside you metaphorically speaking and you could be sucking on her tits as hard as you could like trying to. I don’t know it’s just something about being on your back with a girl deep inside you and she’s telling you to suck on her tits.

Dominance is masculine, submission is feminine, basic science, the male has to be the one fucking the female or otherwise it can hurt the sense of masculinity

You talking about men that you already had set up that you gonna peg them from the start or men that you have been penetrated by and you ask if you can peg them midway?
Because the second option happened to me at least a couple times and its hella out of touch. Like I was RPing straight sex and out of nowhere the other person is like "Can I peg you?", and I'm like "No", and they are like "wHyYyY? BuT I wAnT iT!!!! GiVe mE oR I'm nOt GoNnA tAlK tO yOu AnYmOrE!!" Like do they feel entitled to try and force me into something that is not natural and I have never agreed with from the start?

God, been there but OUTSIDE the RP. That shit was tiresome. Things get steamy just for it be fucking ruined by pegging being brought up and ‘involved’.