I dont wish this upon anyone, not even my worst enemies. I found out through a very good and polite friend of mine that my sister has an only fans. He didnt subscribe to it or anything, he just saw the front page of it. He thought I should know. I went and checked it out and before I confronted my sister or moms (because I have been raised by 2 mothers), I paid to check it out on hopes that it would be empty or has no shameless content. But I was left traumatized of what I saw her do or other guys doing to her in bed and even worse that one of the guys I know did her. I talked to my mothers about it and they told me its none of my business and its her life. I have been traumatized ever since, does anyone know what I can do about it? How I can cope with knowing that fact?

If it's that bad and you need help getting over it, go see a therapist, and maybe take a learning from this that you shouldnt go looking at things you dont want to see

Ok, I am just gonna go ahead and say it. Bro, grow up will you? Its none of your fucking business. She can make her own decisions and I am willing to bit that if that was you being laid as much as she is you would be bragging about it. has it ever occurred to you that she might actually be happy doing that?

While I agree that as she is grown woman that it is no longer your business and that you shouldn't worry too much about it. I also believe that if you are truly traumatised that you either get therapy (if you can afford it) or try talking through it with a friend/loved one. It's not your fault for feeling the way that you are but you also should leave her to make her own decisions about what she wants to do with her body.

I got a radical idea: try talking to her about it yourself. Understanding her reasons for doing it can be a good way of rationalizing the stuff you saw.

That being said I do agree that it's pretty revolting to know your sister is doing that shit. If my brother had an OF I'd definitely be angry too. But at a certain point you have to try and approach it rationally if you wanna deal with it in a healthy way.

Tbh this could be a really good option, rather than skirting around the problem and never really addressing it directly you can go straight to her with your issues.
Regardless of what she says you've said what you needed and you can go about either moving on, talking to someone or getting professional help

And I have a Pornhub account that I may or may not make content on sometime in the future, are you bothered by that, too?

I honestly don't see the problem with this, people do what they want to do to please people, and/or get money. If it's not damaging her, then it shouldn't be a problem. As for you, I honestly feel like you're overreacting. But if you're not, find someone to talk to about it, but know that you can't stop your sis from doing what she wants.

Sex work is work. You're not only disrespecting sex workers by reacting like that, but your sister as well.

Also this feels like one of those "definitely didn't happen" things.

Look, if you’re not happy with it talk to her about it. I get what other people are saying with “it’s her body” but if you really don’t like knowing her profession maybe understanding why she’s doing it will help. If you’re not happy with her doing that type of stuff because you know that isn’t right for her, then if she’s doing it unwillingly try to get her to quit. But alas if it’s just bc you don’t wanna see your sis getting banged for money, then your just gonna have to accept it.

What I’m gonna say isn’t really gonna be helpful but still: with the world today and ESPECIALLY with you being on a porn site prepare to be COOKED in these replies

oh fuck just got traumatized better get on a porn site to ask for help.

Yeah, pretty good answer, better worded then I could put it

Why do you care what she does so much, were you madly in love with her or something?

This feels like a copypasta or something like.

Based non-enabling take.