Self explanatory, I’ll go first!

Sexuality changing, especially queer to straight. Thank u

Kinkshaming may be against the rules but I love to be a hater. Disclaimer, I don't genuinely think anyone into any of these things is irredeemable, and I can genuinely understand why someone might be into them. Regardless,this is more about how kinks can and do affect the real world. I just use my blacklist and I hope you all do the same. Im just taking an opportunity to gripe with how kink affects how you see others, NOT coming at you personally.

Loli/shota as well as the whole infantalism/baby thing. I've seen people progress from ddlg to straight up talking about peoples past assaults and traumas and jacking off to it (trauma kink)

Incest is shockingly common everywhere as a kink, which I absolutely loathe. It's something I have nightmares about and while I can blacklist it on r34, other sites simply don't give me the opportunity or people don't tag their swaths of nightmare inducing incest porn. People tend to forget its a very insidious type of abuse because of how much porn of incest there is, in my exerience.

And finally what ive coined as "Bigotry play" as a catch all term. Describes orientation play as you stated but also raceplay, detrans, and anything derogatory that could come from a place of bigotry (which is sort of vague Ill have to admit) such as seeing disabled people as cute and helpless, trans people as a fetish thing, etc.

The last ones are the big 3 (p-do, n-cro, zoophilia) but thats not a hot take at all and most people on this site would agree with me on that last one.

And another edit just in case, I understand you cant control your kinks but I am on my knees crying and begging and pleading for you to look at how it affects other people. I also do this with myself, I'm no saint, hell I'm even into some fucked up shit myself, I just do my best to keep it from affecting those who I love and care for.

Literally just loli/shota ped*philia content needs better moderation, I'll report a post and it rarely ever gets taken down it shows how mods really dont care

Shit/diapers/piss, as well as anything gory

This will cause some of you to do a double-take, but...

rule34.xxx/index.php?page=wiki&s=view&id=70354

Why is this a thing? Why are the people who usually whinge about this nonstop suddenly okay with it when it has the word "kink" after it?

Because uh, dont you know, guys? If i engage in it sexually then clearly youre too sensitive, or something, because my sexual fantasies are totally disconnected from who I am as a person and how I treat the world around me, duh!

All sarcastic of course. But thats around the response I get from a lot of people when I bring up my discomfort with this kink.

Came here to list exactly these, especially the bigotry play... I always come across people with a kink for "fixing" lesbians (or being a lesbian getting "fixed"), in pictures that have nothing to do with lesbians, which I've always found really odd and off-putting. Sexual fetishes don't exist in a vacuum, so it's a bit weird to me to see someone getting off to things like bigotry>

Do you mean like go from the site? Or is this more of kinks that shouldn't exist thing? I'm a bit dumb, this was not self-explanatory to me.

I think this is either or.

While I'm totally on your side I have the feeling we will just be ignored and the small amount of people who are into these crazy shit who actually read this thread whill probably even feel enjoyment from us being disgusted and might even start to rub it more and more into our eyes.

Ageplay is an excuse to look at someone as if they were a child and sexualize it.
(Fucking someone who's calling you by the title of a parental figure. It concerns me if they have kids. Does your daughter calling you daddy turn you on?)

Cub.
An excuse for Loli or Shota, but since it isnt against the site rules, and it's an animal or anthro, its allowed. And considering alot of cub art is anthro or looks humanish... its unsettling.

i wish they would stop inventing new tags for rape. it messes up my blacklist. also, i hate it when the comments are filled with rp about that on an unrelated picture because i cant blacklist rp comments and i cant unlearn how to read

Absolutely hate the big 3 (ped, nec, & zoo), but also pokephilia as it falls under the same idea as bestiality. Literally they can’t speak except for very few, and they only say their names most of the time. Meowth was an absolute exception.

Another kink I fucking HATE is the whole raceplay/bigotry shit like, one time I was roleplaying as a character and he just so happens to be trans, and someone straight up, riiight when we were gonna start the roleplay, asked “Hey, can you do a detrans kink?” THE WAY I BLOCKED THEM SO FAST.

Edit: Adding incest to the list because I forgot to mention that before.

How the fuck can someone even have a kink for detransitioning? Like even if you are transphobic, that makes no sense...

A shocking amount of people, trans and cis, are into detrans. When i was on nsfw tumblr as a trans guy who isn't planning to do much with/to his body, all I got was detrans stuff. I see the appeal, for trans guys its kind of like bimboification (which I adore as a gender neutral kink btw) but problematic and for gals.. I wouldn't know, I'm not one.

Cis people who are into it... I always think its an excuse to be transphobic tbh.