sircat
10/08/23 10:28PM
Relationships and Rule34?
And by "Relationship" I do NOT specifically mean full time romantic parners necessarily, can be as little as a friend, acquaintance or someone to shoot the shit and talk (dirty or otherwise) to.

I've got a number of good friends and RP subs that I'm on a daily chatting basis with from other sites and real life for several years to this day, but it feels like specifically on Rule34 I end up getting ghosted at complete random way more often, either after finishing one RP, or even after responding to people who had talked to me first saying they were greatly interested based on some comment I posted.

What are your experiences? I've enjoyed the company of most of the people I talked to, I'd love to keep some of them for more than one night. Or are you mostly after some quick fun, zero strings or any kind attached?
Idy610
10/08/23 10:29PM
sircat said:
And by "Relationship" I do NOT specifically mean full time romantic parners necessarily, can be as little as a friend, acquaintance or someone to shoot the shit and talk (dirty or otherwise) to.

I've got a number of good friends and RP subs that I'm on a daily chatting basis with from other sites and real life for several years to this day, but it feels like specifically on Rule34 I end up getting ghosted at complete random way more often, either after finishing one RP, or even after responding to people who had talked to me first saying they were greatly interested based on some comment I posted.

What are your experiences? I've enjoyed the company of most of the people I talked to, I'd love to keep some of them for more than one night. Or are you mostly after some quick fun, zero strings or any kind attached?

I like to get attached to people and make bonds, friendships or whatever you'd like to call that, but most people end up disappearing after a while, don't really know why, even the people that say that won't ever go away.
ThePatient
10/08/23 10:29PM
I've formed no relationships on here, and I don't expect to. In fact I'd be surprised if anybody on here even had any opinions about me one way or the other.
kamaah
10/08/23 10:34PM
Can't really say I've formed anything I'd actually consider a relationship. Like, I'm friendly with anyone I'd talk to but like,,, besides helping me get my rocks off I don't expect anything out of the other person and I'm assuming it's vice versa.
Bricked_Wall
10/08/23 10:49PM
I don't really pursue a friendship actively. If it happens, it happens. I'm used to things heading towards a direction and no one saying anything to confirm its path. I've gotten a few acquaintances/friends just by that (and I heavily fuck with them).
DM_me_for_cat_pics
10/08/23 10:53PM
I met one of my best friends on here :3 A couple years ago I messaged because she left a cute comment, and I was curious about roleplaying, and now she's probably my fav person in the world :>
Sir_Studley
10/08/23 10:56PM
Not on the site but on the R34 discord server Ive become friends with a few people Ive previously roleplayed with that have become acquaintances that I chat with sometimes. Pretty much everyone else ghosts me after or during a roleplay.

However, there was one person I met on there who I really hit it off with though. We got to know each other a bit and realized we were quite similar in a lot of ways, and we had a very spicy session of dirty talk. We were supposed to start a roleplay but before we did they went offline (they didnt unfriend and or block me). They did warn me ahead of time that they were very busy with school and work, but its been a week now and part of me has the fear that theyre not coming back. I really hope they eventually do though because I enjoy chatting and being intimate with them, and right now an online friend with benefits fits my lifestyle more than an IRL partner.
KittyBoy8989
10/08/23 11:17PM

Personally, I don't mind either way. I mostly just go with ehat the other person wants, but then again I already have a pretty solid number of online friends already.
ILoveFatMilfs
10/08/23 11:27PM
I'd be very happy to make some good friends that like my taste on here. It's quite difficult, in my opinion.
tiger837
10/12/23 02:49AM
I'm happy here and talking to other people's and sharing our kinks, also talking about more than just sex but the conversation we had on here really help your fantasies.

I did had one friend on here and we did like to share our stories but he or she not on here anymore I hope I can make some new friends
KevinDaniels
10/12/23 08:51AM
I have actually made 2 friends here, quite the nice guys and we sometimes hang out.
limitlessdreams
11/07/23 12:39AM
I think that there is potential in finding someone far more compatible and honest with you while here than the typical places that are based on lies and pretending anyways.
Goon4Toon
11/07/23 12:45AM
I've tried to make friends here, but usually end in silence.
I'd love to get more friends, as I don't really have any IRL friends despite making an active effort to interact with people. (For reasons too complicated to get into here. Also don't wanna just randomly dump that vile shit). Solitude is fine, but you need someone to tell that solitude is fine.
I'm Autistic and a Social Outcast, so any social interaction in general is great for me.

Also, if anyone I've interacted with previously sees this, just wanna let you know that my lack of interaction isn't from a lack of interest, and my apologies if you thought that or I offended you as a result.

It's from a lack of experience, I usually don't actively strike up conversations myself too often because I genuinely have no idea what I am doing, and am afraid of saying or doing something that'll scare you off.
Shiiina
11/07/23 12:56AM
Made a few friends here on this site, but yeah, usually just rp crap
LustyDude4U
11/07/23 01:17AM
Goon4Toon said:
I've tried to make friends here, but usually end in silence.
I'd love to get more friends, as I don't really have any IRL friends despite making an active effort to interact with people. (For reasons too complicated to get into here. Also don't wanna just randomly dump that vile shit). Solitude is fine, but you need someone to tell that solitude is fine.
I'm Autistic and a Social Outcast, so any social interaction in general is great for me.

Also, if anyone I've interacted with previously sees this, just wanna let you know that my lack of interaction isn't from a lack of interest, and my apologies if you thought that or I offended you as a result.

It's from a lack of experience, I usually don't actively strike up conversations myself too often because I genuinely have no idea what I am doing, and am afraid of saying or doing something that'll scare you off.


I can relate a lot to this, I also have almost no idea what I'm doing socially and tend to worry about about screwing things up by making a poor choice. I dunno how others manage it.
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