Edge1 said:
I wanted to make this post talking about generally hated kinks, and how we could make them less hateable, more enjoyable, more understandable, and more attractive. A huge problem in most NSFW communities is the mass amount of kink shaming, and refusal to either understand kinks, or better their own to make them more appealing to others to cause unity rather than divide.

I was hoping we could list out hated kinks, and how to make them less hateable, more understandable, and more desirable.

For an example, raceplay has easily been one of the most hateable, and divisive kinks out there, and I think I came up with a solution to try and fix that problem. I have narrowed the problem down to the raceplay community and the execution of raceplay.

Because a lot of horrible people misuse the kink to claim racial superiority, or just act way to forceful and assertive.

My suggestion is that instead we use the kink to appreciate other races and ethnicities and use other people's races/ethnicities to add to sexual appeal and learn to appreciate one another. Using the kink for the sake of good and unity rather than hatred, divide, and claims of superiority. Or better yet, use raceplay to cuckold racists, and fight hate with love.

In other words, I believe we should use the kink to fight hate with love rather then spreading hate itself and we appreciate race the same way we appreciate different colored hair or eyes. Because at the end of the day, race/ethnicity is just a feature on a person, and just that.

With that out of the way, what are some other generally hated kinks you would try to make more appealing, and how would you do so?

Dampfalcon said:
I don't really have a way to make furries more appealing except for gateway drugs like Pokemon

Edge1 said:

For an example, raceplay has easily been one of the most hateable, and divisive kinks out there, and I think I came up with a solution to try and fix that problem. I have narrowed the problem down to the raceplay community and the execution of raceplay.

Because a lot of horrible people misuse the kink to claim racial superiority, or just act way to forceful and assertive.

My suggestion is that instead we use the kink to appreciate other races and ethnicities and use other people's races/ethnicities to add to sexual appeal and learn to appreciate one another. Using the kink for the sake of good and unity rather than hatred, divide, and claims of superiority. Or better yet, use raceplay to cuckold racists, and fight hate with love.

In other words, I believe we should use the kink to fight hate with love rather then spreading hate itself and we appreciate race the same way we appreciate different colored hair or eyes. Because at the end of the day, race/ethnicity is just a feature on a person, and just that.

BigRouge said:
There is noble intent here, but this entire premise is fundamentally impossible. You can't make kinks more appealing to people who don't like them. We literally don't choose our kinks. They are things that happen to us through life experience. We may learn to tolerate or like kinks we didn't consider previously over time, but that's really up to each individual.



Also the whole thing about turning raceplay into "racial appreciation" is also just... no. Liking a specific race or ethnicity or aspects about it is not raceplay. That's just called having tastes and preferences. You have failed to understand the core conceit of that kink entirely. Raceplay is divisive because it literally has to be. That's the whole point of it.

Again, I wanna reiterate that I like your spirit. But this one needed more time in the brain oven before it was ready.