Why am i everytime seeing less and less people wanting to engage on a healthy one on one relationship?
People are just cheating and trying 3somes or switch couples, actually discusting really

Are we talking fantasies or real life here, because if it's the latter of the things you listed the only one I'd take issue with is cheating. I'm a monogamist myself, but if people prefer other arrangements and nobody's getting hurt, that's none of my business. Life's too short to get mad about what makes other people happy.

Keep in mind that we are on porn site and people over there are usually more sexually open and willing to try different things. I'm monogamist, I don't even find threesomes enjoyable in dirty chatting scenarios. I stopped giving a shit about most things on this site and I suggest you the same, it's healthier. Focus on yourself and people you enjoy chatting with. ;)

I'm talking about real life, sorry if my post was not much explanatory, here people can lie talking that they fucked a bitch yesterday and send a lame discord video saying "that's me fucking, see?"

Why people are cheating so much irl??

I don't think there's any more or less cheating happening than normal, I personally think there's a two-fold issue going on. For one it's just become less taboo to admit to it--not that I think that lessens it's affects OR justifies it. Add into it the Internet being the aggregate of so much human interaction and anything from general stupidity, to conspiracy theories, to cheating becomes that much more noticeable.

I believe people are simply more open about their desires now that society is starting to be less restrictive on that sort of thing, and I doubt more people are cheating, but in the age we're in it's way easier to be caught doing something immoral or illegal as well as to meet people. You haven't noticed an increase in cheating, you've noticed an increase of awareness.

As I love being a slut online I do agree that monogamy is really the only way to go irl. I could never just sleep around with random guys or girls for the sake of it. I'm keeping my virginity for someone I really love and cherish

Also, why include threesomes and switch couples with cheating, one of them is immoral and a betrayal of your partner's trust, and the former two are private agreements between people in a relationship. Kind of a gross comparison, if that was your intent. ((I'm assuming you mean swingers and not people who swap sexual roles often. I'm pretty sure that's what was intended, but I'm not certain.)) Monogamy isn't inherently better than those others, it's what most people do and varies wildly in success, it's all based on the people involved.

I been seeing guys married three women or more to save their relationship but for me in my opinion I'm not sure if that a good idea tho

Regardless of fantasies, I am actually a fairly monogamous person. I hate the idea of cheating, and I think poly relationships are more likely to fall apart (but not impossible, some people make it work, it just wouldn't for me) but I am fine with the idea of me and my SO having a threesome or something like that, as long as we both are getting a fair amount of attention. Still not something I'd be comfortable with doing on a regular basis though.

Judging by the comments, everyone here seems really reasonable and pleasant gentlemen and women to talk with, with the except of thiccroboi, that saying that society is becoming more open to this type of bullshit, where researchs clearly shows that cheating has negative effects similar to PTSD and shellshock. Monogamy is inherently better because you came from one.

Bigamy and cheating often results in massive agression and abortion rate

There is nothing morally wrong with polyamorous relationships. Hell, it's not even cheating if both partners consent. Y'all are just hating cuz that ain't your taste. But you know a thing or two about hate, don't you?

I myself I've always seen weird and pretty degenerate the fact that you wouldn't want to be in a loving, decent, consensual and caring relation with one person. Like why would you actually want to cheat on someone that is loving you and caring for you? I might be able to understand that if you do that in a very toxic relationship but even then, wouldn't be easier for both to just leave? Idk, I've never understood that, nor why people do it so often, how can I be friends with a cheater? How can even your parents trust you if you are a liar and a cheater? Maybe my point of view it's too extreme but I have no respect for this kind of people nor those who defend them.

Correct

Cheating is bad, yes, that's obvious. We aren't more open to cheating, as I laid out in my posts before. Do you know that there's a difference? It seems that you don't from how you've spoken about them. It's fine if you don't, of course, but it seems odd to hold such vitriol for relationship types outside the norm. Again, cheating isn't a relationship type, please stop insinuating that I am in some way supportive of it from how you structured your post. Very underhanded and scummy if that was on purpose.

Also, could you share some of those studies, I hadn't heard about that and am interested in the subject. My wife and I are thinking about leaving the doors open on our relationship for sexual things since neither of us care much about that sort of thing, so it'd be nice to see some research that would give us a reason either way so that we don't make a poor decision.