This post may be tough to read because of R34 censors.

I made a post similar to this a while back, then about raceplay. I’ve had multiple people completely cut contact with me because I’m into DDLG. Is it wrong? Does it make me a [word R34 won’t let me say]? I’m not actually attracted to [word R34 won’t let me say], just adults dressing and acting like [word R34 won’t let me say]. Am I a bad person? Give me your thoughts.

-LBJ

As long as it’s fantasy. Can’t say it ain’t weird wit the whole dressing up as it, but as long as it’s between adults & it ain’t hurting nobody- do you.

No, it's pretty normal to me. I think too many people are just way too sensitive, there are plenty of "strange" things to be into. But at the end of the day it's a kink regarding fictional content, and most sane people aren't going to do anything bad to people irl

It's a pretty big grey area that I prefer not to step into. I don't have a problem with younger adults and older adults, but I'd prefer to avoid even fantasizing about them being minors. But if you're able to keep it entirely in the realm of fantasy, you're not hurting anyone. So you do you. Seeking public opinion like this is probably going to get some pretty negative results, though, so brace yourself.

Are you hurting anyone? No? Then no.

I am mostly into mom/son, but DDLG and sibs can be fun too.
People tend to not care about the other two as much as about DDLG. Who cares. Go have fun with people who enjoy it too.

Edit: Talking about roleplaying ofcourse. Don't actually boink your family!

DDLG for me is a cope and isn't even usually sexual.

All these value judgements stand atop mountains of ethical philosophy that are clearly going unconsidered. I will continue to not consider it.

I'm surprised that the "you can fantasize about whatever you want" stance is so popular, but regardless, you should ask yourself if you are happy fantasizing about XYZ thing. Setting ethics aside entirely, how happy are you with your beliefs? If they lead to negative outcomes for you, and you have no principled, hard-set value upholding them, why assign these beliefs to yourself? Don't let strangers encourage beliefs if you're beginning to realize costs associated to them.

I wouldnt say its inappropriate. Alot of Ddlg stuff are their own little fetishes. Diapers, pacifiers, daddy kinks, and other stuff.

Some people see it as coping from childhood trauma. Like the 'littles' community on tiktok.

But if you're talking about actual l0lis, then it's a hard NO.

There's no such thing as a "wrong" fetish. Thought crime is a farcical and fallacious concept.