Obsession is an odd word for it. But, I suppose not many people would be surprised, I'm a fairly open crossdresser, so most people just assume I'm a pervert. They aren't wrong, but dressing in nicer clothes isn't a part of it. Uh, maybe the cashier at the local drugstore? I'd feel like it'd be surprising to learn that about a guy you barely know who comes in for a pack of peanuts every so often.