I am truly curious about something and I am not meaning it any any rude, judgmental or offensive way. Its truly I wanna see guys perspective on this. Guys like to have fuck multiple women and even do kinky things like group sex with them or gangbang or whatever, and I have no problem with that as long as its with consent and everyone is having fun. But why is it that guys feel offended and are against other guys doing that to women in their lives like their sisters, moms, etc... Like why you accept it on other women but not yours?


Also, plz again, its really not meant out of disrespect, and I apologize if I sounded rude.

Hello Lamees! I'll try to answer this to the best of my ability.Yes, I have seen this strange contradiction in some men before, unfortunately. I'm no psychologist, but from my guess, it is due to possibly two reasons:

1. Seeing people in porn as "not real." Speaking from experience, it can be difficult sometimes for people to feel empathy for people they see on television, or they sometimes see them as just "fake." Seeing someone in a porn video makes them feel distant, and also they are strangers anyway, so one would not feel that connected to them. Like, if someone told you a person from a country thousands of miles away from you passed away, you might feel a little bit of sympathy, but if one of your loved ones died, you will of course feel much more sad. The same dynamic can be applied here in porn.

2. Seeing people they know as an extension of themselves: Basically, people that a person knows help to define who they are based on their relationship to them, so seeing someone you know personally doing something potentially humiliating like being in an orgy can feel like an "insult" to someone. This is especially true for something like someone's children. A parent can feel like they "didn't raise them right" if their children are doing extreme sexual acts and it can be a blemish on their name.

I'm sorry if this answer is offensive any way, though. Also, it's nice to meet another person who is formal and apologizes a lot here like myself! :)

I think Monbo hit the nail on the head with his theories.

All I can add is this quote from comedian Jeff Foxworthy, which seems appropriate-
"If you've ever had to climb a water tower with a bucket of paint and a brush to defend your sister's honor, you might be a redneck".