Why is it so hard for me as a male dom to find a submissive partner for rp but so easy for submissive males/females to find partners. as you can see the sight is FULL of subs but near half of them would flat out ignore your request. and if one of them happened to accept you get ready because the next day you wouldn't get a response from them, it just baffles me really why are they doing this

I feel you, I’ve been getting ghosted by so many people recently and it’s just absurd at how much some people can just disappear without saying anything.

Are you aggressive?

Judging from the way you worded this, you come across as a bit aggressive and maybe a little entitled. If I was approached similarly I’d probably ignore it too.

Not really aggressive. im being as friendly as possible but then the next day, no response, the day after, unfriended or blocked, the way im speaking right now is just me in a moment of anger because it just happens so often

It may be frustrating but it's not personal. There are a million different reasons somebody stopped replying. I think most of the time people just realized after talking or playing for a little while that they just changed their mind. Most people would rather not say so though, because confrontation is hard and silence is very, very easy.

This site is the perfect breeding ground for noncommittal chatting and RP, and that's not necessarily a bad thing. If you can't change yourself and you can't change other people, then try changing your environment.

Alright. i guess thats something i could work on.

Are you sure they easily find partners? I am more under the impression that it is hard for everybody to find rp partners ever since the rp forum is gone.

youtu.be/r0HrBZceUN0

Pretty sure,i had that one partner once and when i reminded them of the rp we were doing they apologized since they had tons of rps going on. so yeah im more than sure its easy for them

www.youtube.com/watch?v=61u15V02Xwo

media.discordapp.net/atta...eplay_Final1686126509.mov

Well for one-

There's more subs than Dom's on here. Not a complicated idea to understand-

The other reason that a lot of subs ghost I think, is because since theres so many Dom's to choose from.. they're more likely to be picky about who to choose. Like say five doms message one sub- is that sub going to reply to all five doms? Maybe, probably not. They'll go for the one who seems to most interesting, is the best RPer, or has similar kinks.

This is a very small sample size to come to the conclusion that all of then have that going on, heck there is a discussion going on why its so difficult/hard to find rps like this like every other day so there is that.

Also "tons of" means most likely 2 other or so as that already can lead to constantly writing, especially if its on this site with its pretty bad mail system

That's pretty much what I do, if I make a thirsty comment and get five messages in one minute, and half the messages are some basic-ass "sup bitch, want some cock?" I only reply to the ones that put in a little bit of actual effort because oh boy are there some lame doms here.