Well, I want to know because recently I met a owner of a bar and give him my first time in some bdsm long term experience (like one night and almost to the night of the other day).
So, I thought of how was the first time to others, do you enjoy it?
What kind of games you play?
Do you still in contact with that person?

a friend set me up with a dominatrix once. nothing extreme happened but there was a lot of cum denial, being ordered to do things etc

honestly at first it was super weird to get into but easy to get into the flow. im a switch so i prefer to dom but i have this secret fetish of also getting dommed so being able to explore that was amazing for me

My *first* experience? Well. Not much to say there.

I was curious, joined the local munch, met a guy, let him do stuff to me. Though honestly, he was pretty boring in retrospect, just kind of your average renfaire geek.

My first actual dungeon experience was a little better. Hung out with a lot of people, made out with a few, and got tied up and spanked at the end. What's not to like?

My *best* experience, though. Would probably have to be from a few weeks ago, where I did practically everything imaginable to a close friend of mine. Impact play, caning, tickling, bondage, pegging, chastity.

Look I'm just saying, until you've seen a scratched, whipped and caged femboy forced to dress up as Hatsune Miku, squirming around on the bed and whining at the top of her voice, have you even lived?