id say it depends on who you are. do you like looking up at a night sky? or maybe holding each other in our arms as we fall asleep? or just getting deep in conversation? or each other?
trans or not, looks aren't always everything. sure they're a factor, BUT regardless it should also be about who you're sticking your dick in rather than what. know thy lover, or something like that. I wouldn't wanna interlope with someone if all i knew was "girl" since im not that depraved, hopefully. you know.
sa'll m'sayin.