Mutual kinks, or at least a will to try something once. If you've got a partner that has vastly different kinks and favourites to you, then that severely limits what you're able to do with them. Let's say one person likes pet play or bondage and the other person doesn't. Whichever route you take, be it vanilla sex or whatever kink the other person likes, by the end of it it's likely at least one person will be unsatisfied.
danabisexual said:
potatofries said:
I cannot stress this enough but: Consent
Oh, I think thats a given
You would be shocked at how many people think consent is an option.