If you're a sub, do you like hard dom (degradation/humiliation, rough sex, etc.) Or soft dom (praise, comforting/aftercare, gentle sex) or both.

If you're a dom, state whether you like being a hard or soft dom better.

Personally I like being a soft dom a bit better but I can do both :3

I'm fine with being either; although I slightly prefer soft domming, when I ask most of the people I RP with they prefer to be hard dommed.

The best RP I've had in a long while was an aphrodisiac RP where I started by soft domming my partner, then she turned the tables on me, then I turned the tables, then her, then me. Loved every second of it.

I prefer soft domming overall, whether I’m sub or dom. It’s nice to have a nice, soft Mommy dom, but being a soft dom myself can feel rewarding too sometimes, just depends what I’m feeling.

I prefer to hard Dom, but I also haven't given soft donming a try, so who knows.

But I vastly prefer to be soft dommed myself. I want them to take control, but I don't want my balls stepped on or to be humiliated, aha. Does that make me a hypocrite?

I'm strictly a dom and love having control, so I'm not a super huge fan of power play and whatnot

I prefer soft domming, treating my playthings nicely.

I like a mostly soft dom. I’m not a masochist

This boy gets it, phrasing and all :3

Soft stuffs. Treat the subs nicely, though there's nothing wrong with getting a bit rough. I can't berate people well though, so only physically rough.

I lean more towards hard doms, but not the overly mean kind. Rough sex is great, as is some dirty talk mixed with a little bit of praise, anything beyond that tends to kill the mood for me. I'm fairly vanilla in that regard.

. . . Daddy?

Soft.

Even thus i might have a lot of femdom, I do not tolerate to the point of total deprivation, humilliation, lack of sexual intercourse or even thus financial domination its a NO from me, whips and slight restrains are great but total control over me?

Pass

I'm more into the rougher dom stuff for sure, even into downright mean territory at times. I feel like it's got the most room to have fun with.

I also just feel that things like praise, care and comfort are already parts of normal sex to begin with. So having a dom that wants to do that isn't adding anything, or changing it from what'd be an average sexual encounter with someone who doesn't label themselves like that.

The vibe I get is that soft dom just means normal partner that'll take the lead.

That's just my 2 am thoughts though.

I prefer to hard dom. When it comes to kinks I have a massive sadistic streak, so humiliation, roughness, all that stuff is right up my alley.

I can soft dom, and it can sometimes be fun, but I'd usually rather mix elements in with the hard dom stuff than do purely soft.

I wouldn't call myself either one, as both have their merits, but whether on the giving or receiving end I prefer soft. I feel guilty when degrading and don't particularly enjoy being degraded.