I fucking hate this word.

I guess I vaguely get the idea: guys like to think of girls like "breeding machines" and impregnation seems like the ultimate way of "owning" someone.

But it's still so fucking stupid. It's not "hot" in any way. It sounds like you're (as a guy) actually devaluing yourself to animal level as well. Like you're a "bull" type of a breeder, you know. On some sort of meat farm.

I don't like animals. I like men. Strong, smart, tall, better than me in every way. This is what makes me wet. Not the "breeders". Fucking stop this, please. At least when you're messaging me.
Maybe I'm too old, but where's the class. What the fuck.

Wah?

Well most guys around here have no class, they simply want to feel superior in the most direct, least interesting way. They don't even want to impregnate a woman half the time, they just use it to mean rough sex, sometimes not even that rough. It's really dumb, especially when you see guys saying they'll "Breed my bussy" So much wrong with that statement on face value, not to mention just how lacking it is in charm.

Nothing wrong with a meat-farm lad, or maybe seed-silo depending, I get animal terms and think they can be used well, but really are not, it's frustrating as well when those guys bring in rutting and things like that too, makes them seem a tad more knowledgeable, but dumber all the same.

Thank you for making this, it's very nice to vent a little about small things like this.

I don't mind being dicked down, even like an animal, I just really dislike the "breeding" word. I don't think it's useful in any way. Like what the hell. Why would we purposefully degenerate what is happening. Words are the uppermost level of conceptualization. Even images and videos are much lower.
I may be (I've been many times) actually "bred" like a fucking barnside whore, but why would we describe it like that in our utmost desires?
Compare "I wanna breed you" (my immediate image is a proverbial fucking fat idiot in his mother's basement, hands staining the keyboard characters with his precum as he's typing this)
to "Hey, you're kinda nice, wanna go to my place?"
or whatever.

I actually don't mind "dirty" talks per se (another word we need to get rid of! why not saying "passionate"?.. like why the fuck not?.. is sex dirty? it's fucking not! It's about passion, and love and beauty and appreciation and connection; it's ANYTHING BUT dirt; it's like humanity at its best

POP-QUIZ ACTUALLY!
What can we use instead of it? (The "breeding").
Can we help our basement bull-breeders somehow.
I love them just like any other human, so I'm legit committed to invent a more useable term.
Just in the remote case you want to please me (;)), maybe come up with a better one. And then we'll campaign for it. And if you're good enough at it, I'd give some to you.

I know what you mean. It is the same way that I hate guys that overdo theor dick descriptions "thick veiny monster cock that's bigger than average even when it's not hard"

Yeah okay, you are clearly compensating your irl dick.

As a man, the term "breed" disgusts me...

Like, wtf... I do not want to make her look like some kind of animal (a cow seems more to me) and a pregnancy ain't a nice thing.

Men might look like "Best sex of my life" "I filled her up" "She was thirsty so I gave her lots of milk"
Ugh... its disgusting...

Sex can't be just your hard dick fantasies, it needs of both to exist cooperation and a connection.

The kinks and talks are a way to also improve or secure expression on this.

Imagine expecting class from the people who use a degenerate porn site, and then critiquing the fact that some people like to get a bit more creative with their use of language while horny. I'm not fond of "breeding" either, but it's a perfectly acceptable term to use when talking about impregnating someone.

Well, that's my point.
Why can't you bring style to your desires? Why be "degenerate" in the first place?..
Sex is beautiful, it's like the best thing in the world. Why do you deliberately dumb it down to be some grocery store affair?

The only time I really use the word "breeding" is with my gf in rp but outside that it's hardly ever used by either of us when we write our replies

Not sure how seriously I can take a call for more class when it's coming from someone whose favourites section is full of rape, bondage and torture porn, but I do agree that too many people around here have no class and the overuse of dehumanising language is clear evidence of that.

Real sex is beautiful and fun I agree, but fantasy/rp online is something else entirely. Not everyone enjoys the same sterile style of "passionate" talk, some of us here actually enjoy people who are willing to be more perverse in conversation, since we would never get to experience that in our normal lives.

Also yeah some people are just bad at rp, but not everyone has the time or willingness to draft full backstories for every rp encounter they have, some people just want to have some quick fun and then dip, that's just life.

It does, I'm not trying to defend it and I've never done it to anyone, but expecting people on a porn site to not behave like people on a porn site is striking me as a bit dense.

Honestly, I don't have anything against the kink, it's a fetish like any other. If it's harmless and consensual people can like whatever they want.

What I DO have an issue with is how some of the guys with the kink are braindead Chad-wannabe's. No Billy, I don't care about your noodle dick, I'm not going to lust after you, you are probably a two pump champ and think that the faster you shoot your load the better. That's not breeding, that's just cringe. Grow up boys.

I could even agree that if done right this kink can be super hot. Getting dicked down and creampied sounds amazing in theory, but when when you have a horde of barely literate goblins messaging you and the only legible words are "slut" and "breed" it really turns you off. But sadly that's my experience with this type of kink online. Just guys thinking that them having a dick is enough for women to feel honoured they were graced by their presence.

Rant over, sorry *sigh*

To be fair, I see your point.
You are so obviously a dude though. For girls it's different. It's not as "mechanical", if you wish. It's not about "breeding". Yes, I want to be "used" and be a "slut" and a "fucktoy" and hell yes, a "breeding tool", but only if HE DESERVES THAT. And he can only deserve that if he's good enough, which incidentally means that he never uses such language. :D

I guess I finally found the answer!
I want to be "bred", but not by someone who tells me he wants to "breed"!
If that makes sense.

This is why I love pegging so much. Because there's literally no way I could "breed you" with a plastic dick. Plus I just like the whole role reversal.

Plus, I'm still respectful while pegging a dude, I don't make him feel like some animal (unless that's what they want ;)) I make him still feel respected.

I'm a gentlewoman, and if I'm getting dirty on this site I still treat my partner with the love and respect they deserve. I think I might actually have a praise kink, but not for when I'm praised, I just like telling my partner how good they are and that they're so sexy. Because sex is a passionate and beautiful act and deserves to be treated as such, which means respecting your partner.