I’m going to put it bluntly. I genuinely believe that cuddling is way better than sex could ever be. This is to be taken with a VERY large grain of salt, given that In a virgin. I just don’t think they’re could be anything as mutually enjoyable and comforting than cuddles. I’m curious what those of you who HAVE done the dirty think.

Yeah sex is nice but have you wanted to cuddle with someone you love?

Cuddles are life my nibba, Sex will never feel as good as cuddles, the feeling of the person you love’s arms wrapped around you, while your arms are wrapped around them..is the best feeling...

Carnal pleasure < Genuine affection.

I am genuinely glad to see people agree!

Well is it because we also lack affection when we can always relieve our horniness with busting a nut? Maybe

You first need someone to be affectionate with.

They're tied, imo. Cuddles are fine, but in a relationship, I want me some sex. I'm horny too often to stick with just cuddles. Yeah, my hand feels fine, but I'll take a body over it any day.

That said, I would also prefer it to have an underlying emotional connection, and not just a pump and dump.

They're equally balanced in my book.

I don't got time for either of them when I'm such an Epic Gamer

Foreplay and aftercare when done right are actually more appealing to me than sex, but maybe I'm just sappy :>

To me they are the same. The trick is in using one to boost how the other feels

^ This.

Building on what Overlord_Kujo said about the emotional connection, to me one of the best parts about being in a relationship is getting to know your partner's body and desires and they yours so well that the two of you can spend all afternoon bringing each other almost to the point of ecstasy over and over again until you finally cataclysmically explode together OR if time is limited when the mood strikes you can press each other's buttons hard and fast and both get off in under five minutes so that neither of you will be late for work that day... maybe a little disheveled and wearing a shit-eating grin, but still on time.

Edited to add: I saw this in another thread and wanted to address it, but I can't figure out how to PM here-


Don't knock being hairy. Even though the fast-fading current trend is the (in my opinion, creepy) slick-as-a-dolphin-all-over look, lots of people INCLUDING women prefer a guy who's hairy. Consider this- Every Teddy Bear ever made has both a hairy butt and a hairy back and people still love snuggling up to them, don't they?

That's my jam aswell :)
I am more leaning to slowly building "steamy romance" novel vibes with how i ship my favourite characters :)

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Everyone here agrees, good, anyone who doesnt gets added to the dipshit list