Heya I have noticed that the majority of female (especially afab) people here are submissive. As a switchy Femboy myself I do enjoy domming but would also love to experience a little change of pace every now and then and the only really dominant women I have noticed here so far are a bit to extreme dominatrix or at least to rough for my taste. That's why I am wondering if there are Dom women on here that enjoy going less into that "tough love" direction

Why are you looking on here?

Lol, I thought mommy Dommes were the new norm! ^^

pro tip;
ur not looking hard enough ;p

While everyone wants a Dom my mommy, I doubt there is enough to meet demand :D

Well most that I do find are futa. Not subbing to Futas anymore ^^"

I’ve actually had the opposite problem: too many submissive boys wanting soft/mommy Dommes. Nobody likes it hard anymore, I guess?

i can take it either way, though i agree that the dominatrix stuff is a bit too far for my liking. still, getting teased and bullied by a stacked milf is a big yes. or being forcefully straddled and ridden... oh, damn. a relentlessly horny girl forcing herself on my lap and holding a hand around my neck while she takes me for herself.. hmm, hmm.

Extreme agree. This is why I’ve almost fully given up on online sex stuff

Most subs just want soft dom shit which I’m not gonna judge but like it’s just not for me

My big issue is how most guys who like hard doms are complete cumbrains and break social and moral boundaries within seconds

I also find femboys unattractive now so rip me </3

Are we the same person? Lol, femboys are a hard no for me too, and I definitely have high standards for roleplay.

Wait, I'm a little confused on something here for female doms-

So when we're talking soft doms vs hard doms for fendom, what's the distinction here? Like...soft Dom ~ dommy mommy types and gentle femdom? And hard doms veering towards dominatrix and BDSM stuff? Or is it more nuanced than what I'm assuming?

You have it right. Harder Dommes being dominatrices and that type, much harsher in their demeanor and treatment of submissives. Soft Dommes and mommy Dommes are just that: softer, nicer, not really cruel in the same way.

Essentially just that. Treating the boy with praise vs degrading.

Ahh, I see! Interesting; it seems like it lends itself to involve a rather niche power dynamic that some may find (or not) to their liking. I'll admit that I do have a femdom kink, though I am unsure where mine falls on the spectrum.

Plenty of us still love hard doms dw