Personally, I would
Kinky_Pie said:
jelloman said:
That could be described as a type of sexual frustration, yes, but if you stop yourself because of personal reasons such as self worth, and for other reasons that have to do with the intercourse itself, it sounds more like you have a psychological problem, that you need to find the cause for before you can do the deed. if its not too much to ask, what would be the reason of your self conscious state?
I keep looking at the things that guys like in a woman and I feel like thats not me.I feel like no one wants to go for the FAT chick
Personally, I think you should just find yourself.
It seems as though it is indeed a self worth problem, as you noted. If you do not find yourself attractive, no one else will.
If loosing weight will help you feel better about yourself, join a group or class where other people are striving for similar goals.
Make progress and achievements together.