PaizuriFan524
05/02/17 02:37AM
Bored by intercourse
I don't know if it's just me, but when I usually look at porn, especially when reading doujins or watching hentai, I tend to mainly watch the parts that involve things like foreplay (and especially titfucking), while usually skimming or even skipping through the intercourse scenes (vaginal or anal). Hell, sometimes I'll just even stop watching/reading after parts that contain titfucking. I know in real life I would probably prefer to do oral and vaginal with a woman (though of course I wouldn't object to trying outercourse if she were open to it), but when it comes to watching porn, I just get WAY more turned on when observing things like titfucks than actual intercourse. Unless that part is REALLY well done, of course. A couple of my favorites on this site even contain vaginal and other things that aren't titfucking just because they are done really well.

But yeah...is that weird? To not find the actual act of sex interesting compared to what usually occurs in foreplay? Is that the case for anyone else?
Lorby
05/02/17 02:41AM
PaizuriFan524 said:
I don't know if it's just me, but when I usually look at porn, especially when reading doujins or watching hentai, I tend to mainly watch the parts that involve things like foreplay (and especially titfucking), while usually skimming or even skipping through the intercourse scenes (vaginal or anal). Hell, sometimes I'll just even stop watching/reading after parts that contain titfucking. I know in real life I would probably prefer to do oral and vaginal with a woman (though of course I wouldn't object to trying outercourse if she were open to it), but when it comes to watching porn, I just WAY more turned on when observing things like titfucks than actual intercourse. Unless that part is REALLY well done, of course. A couple of my favorites on this site even contain vaginal and other things that aren't titfucking just because they are done really well.

But yeah...is that weird? To not find the actual act of sex interesting compared to what usually occurs in foreplay? Is that the case for anyone else?
Well first off, I agree with some of what you said. But now more importantly.

There is such a thing as too much porn, or well getting off to it too much. Eventually it'll just affect you and ot become as special as it should be.

As for mangas or porn or whatever. H!Mangas are just fun to read before the sex cause it's unique and funny. Sex scenes are usually always the same.

Jade_Non
05/02/17 02:42AM
It's a bad idea to watch too much porn or relive yourself too much to it.
I think it's perfectly fine to not want to watch the actual sex, I'm in the same boat(Unless I actually wanna get off to it)
FourLeafFuckingClover
05/02/17 02:45AM
I feel the same, there's something so special about foreplay, regular sex is so... Unchanging, not as many variations as titjobs or other positions
hot_sauce
05/02/17 06:38PM
The problem with too much porn or sex is that you may desensitize yourself, meaning you'll have weaker and weaker reactions to it and enjoy it less. Like burning out.
FourLeafFuckingClover
05/02/17 06:52PM
hot_sauce said:
The problem with too much porn or sex is that you may desensitize yourself, meaning you'll have weaker and weaker reactions to it and enjoy it less. Like burning out.

I'm having the same issue OP has, and I'm thinking about stop watching porn for a while, but I'm not sure for how long and if I'll be able to make it :/
hot_sauce
05/03/17 07:03PM
FourLeafFuckingClover said:
hot_sauce said:
The problem with too much porn or sex is that you may desensitize yourself, meaning you'll have weaker and weaker reactions to it and enjoy it less. Like burning out.

I'm having the same issue OP has, and I'm thinking about stop watching porn for a while, but I'm not sure for how long and if I'll be able to make it :/


Other physical activities like sports and exercise can burn off your energy. Just regular jogging is enough to burn off the urge to cum. Won't stop it, but will calm things down some.
EdgedDenied
05/03/17 07:11PM
Speaking as a man who has a lot of sex, preferring outercourse is fine. I find blowjobs, footjobs, titfucks, cunnilingus, and even handjobs and grinding to be sexier than intercourse. Maybe it's because it's more varied, maybe it's because I'm less about having an orgasm and more about being as sexual and full-body-expeience-having as possible for as long as possible, maybe it's because of porn, maybe it's other reasons.

Porn is a visual thing though, so it makes a lot of sense to prefer things where you can see the cock getting worked over instead of things like vaginal where it's less visual and more physical. Assuming you're a man who's imagining yourself as the cock in question, of course.

If it's affecting your real life sex, then yeah, watch less porn. Realizing porn and sex and different things is pretty vital.
Kielan
05/04/17 06:26PM
Too much of anything will make you bored of it, too much of anything sucks, look at porn less often and you may be interested again, or not, this too is OK.

tiger837
05/04/17 09:24PM
I think about it sometime to see if anyone can do more better, I mean when I watch too much porn I don't know what else I can watch but the same videos
hungprincess
05/05/17 02:38PM
I typically watch foreplay and blowjob scenes the most myself. So i guess im in the same boat. But I agree, too much porn can totally destroy your confidence also
PaizuriFan524
05/06/17 07:30AM
I didn't expect everyone replying to my topic to assume I have some kind of porn addiction. I just asked because intercourse is usually the "main event" of porn, and I was just wondering what people thought of me preferring the acts that occur before (and sometimes after) such.
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