Lorby said:
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yeah don't mind me i'm just griping
yeah don't mind me i'm just griping
bipface said:
yeah don't mind me i'm just griping
How dare you!Lorby said:
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yeah don't mind me i'm just griping
Nah Jk
But seriously I can understand where you're getting at to some point. Most people like to view themselves or insert themselves in porn. So it would make sense to be pissed off (for lack of a better word) when something you're not a fan of pops up
somewhat on topic:
i've read a bunch of long hentai mangas (150+ pages) over the years, and i've noticed they often tend to draw-out their storylines by introducing a series of different fetishes, one at a time or in combinations.
so one possible strategy to help your GF/BF 'explore' some fetishes/'fantasies' might be to convince them to read one of these mangas, because i think new sexual ideas can be more approachable if you're already invested in the story/characters - and of course for a story of this length to succeed it's pretty essential to have compelling characters and arcs
just a thought, not speaking for experience
i've read a bunch of long hentai mangas (150+ pages) over the years, and i've noticed they often tend to draw-out their storylines by introducing a series of different fetishes, one at a time or in combinations.
so one possible strategy to help your GF/BF 'explore' some fetishes/'fantasies' might be to convince them to read one of these mangas, because i think new sexual ideas can be more approachable if you're already invested in the story/characters - and of course for a story of this length to succeed it's pretty essential to have compelling characters and arcs
just a thought, not speaking for experience
bipface said:
somewhat on topic:
i've read a bunch of long hentai mangas (150+ pages) over the years, and i've noticed they often tend to draw-out their storylines by introducing a series of different fetishes, one at a time or in combinations.
so one possible strategy to help your GF/BF 'explore' some fetishes/'fantasies' might be to convince them to read one of these mangas, because i think new sexual ideas can be more approachable if you're already invested in the story/characters - and of course for a story of this length to succeed it's pretty essential to have compelling characters and arcs
just a thought, not speaking for experience
if they're interested in reading it to begin with. An alternative could be just porn since it's more widespread but it won't have the same affect as a Doujin not even close
somewhat on topic:
i've read a bunch of long hentai mangas (150+ pages) over the years, and i've noticed they often tend to draw-out their storylines by introducing a series of different fetishes, one at a time or in combinations.
so one possible strategy to help your GF/BF 'explore' some fetishes/'fantasies' might be to convince them to read one of these mangas, because i think new sexual ideas can be more approachable if you're already invested in the story/characters - and of course for a story of this length to succeed it's pretty essential to have compelling characters and arcs
just a thought, not speaking for experience
Lorby said:
if they're interested in reading it to begin with
if they're interested in reading it to begin with
hmm true, my sheltered little mind sometimes fails to contemplate the possibility that some people might find anime-style character art inherently unappealing
bipface said:
hmm true, my sheltered little mind sometimes fails to contemplate the possibility that some people might find anime-style character art inherently unappealing
uh you aren't being sarcastic right? Juat making sure simce it seems that way to me and I wasn't intending to be a dick
Lorby said:
if they're interested in reading it to begin with
if they're interested in reading it to begin with
hmm true, my sheltered little mind sometimes fails to contemplate the possibility that some people might find anime-style character art inherently unappealing
If you trust and love her, you know her boundaries.
If what you want doesn't break those, just ask.
In my experience the direct approach had led to the best encounters.
If what you want doesn't break those, just ask.
In my experience the direct approach had led to the best encounters.
Dickygirl_ said:
I brought up pegging with my last ex and he got so angry at me that I had to stay with a friend for the night . "DO I LOOK LIKE A fa-"you get the idea. I had one boyfriend who had a thing for cumming in panties that I was wearing, when he asked if I would let him do that he looked like a dog begging for table scraps
I brought up pegging with my last ex and he got so angry at me that I had to stay with a friend for the night . "DO I LOOK LIKE A fa-"you get the idea. I had one boyfriend who had a thing for cumming in panties that I was wearing, when he asked if I would let him do that he looked like a dog begging for table scraps
Oh, that's terrible.
BTW, I'm open to the concept, or will be when you're done ;P.
Lorby said:
uh you aren't being sarcastic right? Juat making sure simce it seems that way to me and I wasn't intending to be a dick
uh you aren't being sarcastic right? Juat making sure simce it seems that way to me and I wasn't intending to be a dick
no no, wasn't supposed to be sarcastic >.<
god damn i'm so bad at conversation :S
bipface said:
no no, wasn't supposed to be sarcastic >.<
god damn i'm so bad at conversation :S
it's cool mate
Lorby said:
uh you aren't being sarcastic right? Juat making sure simce it seems that way to me and I wasn't intending to be a dick
uh you aren't being sarcastic right? Juat making sure simce it seems that way to me and I wasn't intending to be a dick
no no, wasn't supposed to be sarcastic >.<
god damn i'm so bad at conversation :S
Dickygirl_ said:
I was kinda worried he'd hit me( he never ever Did) but he broke a lamp. I was scared and I ran out of the apartment. Not good times
I was kinda worried he'd hit me( he never ever Did) but he broke a lamp. I was scared and I ran out of the apartment. Not good times
Girl, your boyfriend sounds like a cunt. I really hope you dumped his ass straight afterwards. I know I wouldn't be putting up with a guy dropping f-bombs on me all from the sudden o.o
As for OP - I've always been pretty open about my kinks, so I'm not super sure what to tell you here. The only kink I've never really told anyone about is cheating, and that's because... well, yeah, that's never something you wanna bring up to your significant other >.>
I think the best way to go about it would be to take it slow. Understand that there are different "levels" of kinkiness. Asking your girl if she's into spanking ain't the same as asking her to vore you.
Take whatever kink you like and try to introduce her to some elements of it. Take it from there. If she likes it, that's great! If Shen doesn't, it just wasn't meant to be. If she is mad or berates you at the mere mention... yeah, there are plenty of fish in the sea bud :P
Good luck!
