People don’t like asphyxiating me, very sad

hyper gets stupid after a while

I dunno if vanilla sex counts as one but I find it more arousing and fun personally, but a lot of people like it rough and I just...don't, honestly.

Most of my kinks only have the downside of getting ignored for being too simple.

I like vanilla sex too for sure, but yeah, rough/painful sex is something you either like or you really don't like. And that's totally fine! I think it'd be weird if you were ONLY into rough stuff, because that could lead to a lot of toxicity and trust issues pretty quickly.

And I feel you on the simple kinks. I don't think I'm very kinky compared to some of the people here...

All of them. Not even joking, I have had some level of digust or hesitation from all the women I've dated for each kink. I just kinda end up with people that talk a big game but are very vanilla.

But for a funny example: My last ex started wearing a scarf in bed because I kept choking her during sex and it made her throat sore.

It sucks when people can't accept your kinks but at least it's good when you're both honest from the start and aren't stuck trying to please each other when at least one of you hates it. But yeah, vanilla people pretending they're hardcore is the most infuriating shit ever, especially when they genuinely believe it. Even being on this site has taught me I'm not as dirty as I once thought I was lol

If any of my irl friends knew I was into farts, they probably wouldn't be friends with me anymore.

It's physically impossible or would realistically not be very pleasurable at all

the downside of any fetishes is that there is high chance that once you start discussing sex with your girlfriend/boyfriend, they might "ew" and you'll be single again. even if your fetish isnt that bad, they'd not understand how it feels for you

Ropes leave obvious marks

I guess the downside to my fetish is how people get very confused that I like it sometimes and some don't believe me

Some people just don't see the pleasure of that side of the dom/sub spectrum and so they act like it doesn't exist or somethings wrong with those who do enjoy it