Rule 34 - Done with RPing

BleedingLegend

10/15/16 07:01AM

Done with RPing

Ok I am gonna make this sob story short so there isn't a lot of this boohoo woe is me bullshit.
Also why am I posting this?
Because there are people that RP with me and put up with my bull shit, and this is pretty much me saying "You'd be better off finding someone else."

Basically I suck goodbye
Be back to rping maybe

If you want the whole cry baby explanation why then here.

I am a sub, and as a sub, I don't get that much attention on here for RPs to get my rocks off. So I have had to change or completely ignore my own fetishes and do stuff in rps I generally find not appealing. I am also not good at coming up with plots for rps, I can't think up this shit on the fly like some people can. I mean it takes me almost a full fucking hour to come up with one rp idea. And the idea I usually come up with is not what the other person likes. I hate doming. HATE IT. Which sucks because it seems like every girl on this site gets supper wet from being treated like some jerk offs property. Also I am not into futa...which makes things even MORE complicated. And I am boring, really boring. I had sex one time, it was barely even sex. So I am not that creative, I don't know a lot of the terminology (it baffles me that sex has terminology). I only really like two RPs I've done. I am dealing with hard case depression, I seem to be girl repellent IRL, so a serious lack of confidence. I am very empathetic, which causes issues trust me. Its the biggest reason why I hate to dom. I tend to value back story and character progression over the "good stuff". Theres more but I fell like I am making myself out as a giant piss ant already. You get the picture. I hope.

Dusk.Ivory

10/15/16 08:15AM

Nope nope nope. Bleeding you stay right where you're at. While I haven't seen you in private Rp I've seen your public one's and they don't suck not even a little, and not being able to come up with ideas is nothing bad. You can just take your time when you thoughts are otherwise idle to think of something you'd like to do, or you can talk to your partner to try and spit ball an idea together. Lastly real life sucks thats why it's nice to do Rps in ridiculous scenarios and just forget it for awhile, it night seem like you're girl repellent but I doubt most of them have taken the time or conversations to get to know you or your inner most thoughts, and those who aren't willing to do so aren't worth the time and those who are would probably come to like you.

Im not good at talking to people at all but just wanted you to know you should stay or at least give it some more thought.

Invicus

10/15/16 10:19AM

Don't say that Bleeding! You're good at it, it's just that the enviroment isn't exactly filled with dom girls.

You know what? Pm me and we can cook something up, because (on occasion) I play dom girls. If you want, just leave the scenario to me.

Ice.

10/15/16 10:48AM

Invicus said:
Don't say that Bleeding! You're good at it, it's just that the enviroment isn't exactly filled with dom girls.

You know what? Pm me and we can cook something up, because (on occasion) I play dom girls. If you want, just leave the scenario to me.

Ya man, why think this way man.

br00m

10/15/16 01:26PM

I really understand how you feel.
I kinda feel the same, am really insecure, etc.

It won't really help if you tell him that he actually IS good at it, because he can't take that thought, I suppose.
It is very frustrating if you feel like you're just there to fullfill the fetishes of others, and others don't really pay mind to yours.

I personally don't even text people anymore because I've accepted that I'm a joke, but I doubt that you are one as well Bleeding.

Killua

10/15/16 01:44PM

See..People this is what i mean when i make my "special Snowflake" remark. Do not get me wrong: I´m very sympathetic to your problem here. You do not find an rp partner and that sucks.

Been there.

But really let me ask you something: You say yourself that the female population on this website is pretty small..Substract the non-futa, non rping, non subs from this and you get a handful.

Ok fine. But really: What does it get anyone to complain about it? Again i´m sympathetic to your problem, but your reaction is the typical: "Its not about me so i have to complain like a 5 year old" reaction. People cum and go on this website, thats how its always been. going on the forum, complaining that you are done with RPing (which we all know you will pick up in a week again) will not magically change the problem. Furthermore there will just be people, stroking your ego instead of your member OR they will be pissed because you basically told them you will fuck off.

Now hear me out on this: Instead of focusing on how this is so not working for you..How about you make it work?

You are boring? Work on your RP´s. Be more creative and elaborate. You like an indepth story? Focus on that to bind women to you.

Shit i had RP´s going on for over 6 months because i kind of had a good idea. And sure you cant always be at your best, but its crystal clear that most of us stick to a few favorites right? Dont deny it, thats true. considering that the dominant female population is already so small, and their inboxes are basically blowing up, the best way to act is to be a bit more interesting.

If you cant do that? Tough shit.

You think other people get an invitation to an rp every fucking day? 8/10 I get no response to my Chat requests. Thats life.

Sounding like an asshole here, i know. But sometimes the problem is not with others, but rather your own lack of will to actually make a change in the boundaries you are given.

Get to work sub

PS: I suffer from depression myself. And its brutal. But letting yourself down will get you nowhere. If you wanna be a sub thats ok, but at least grab yourself by the balls and pull up

Kilakuna

10/15/16 06:41PM

You know what. I am so sick of your bitching and moaning
Bleeding you can go ahead and fuck right off I don't even give a shit anymore

cumcat

10/15/16 07:18PM

@ Killua

Everything you said is true. The only problem is is it worth it. You can play along, fit the role, be an active part of the group, but eventually you windup asking yourself "what are you doing it for?"

The fact of the matter is interest in something can die. Some don't want it die, as in the OP's case, other people just let it go. And honestly sometimes it's just better to bury it and find something else as opposed to trudging on "hoping"with time and practice it, or you, will get better.

Take me for example, I have depression, thirty fucking years worth. I've tried the "Be A Better You" and it does improve things somewhat, but under all that the issues still persist. You can act different all you want, but deep down it's still there.

And to top it all off when you genuinely ask others for help or support your met with dead empathy or a firm fuck you. The fact of the matter very few people, if any at all, give a shit about you. Their only interested in themselves and you can do for them.

If the OP gets back on the horse that's great! If he finds what he's looking for even better! But maybe he hit that point were the best option in his eyes is just to say "enough is enough", as much as he may not like it.

Killua

10/15/16 07:29PM

@Cumcat.. The problem is: Neither of that applies here.

Op did not ask for help. Op did not say he lost interest, he said there were not enough people.

Op is whining. Which is fine if you have to get it out of the system. But at the same time, this is not a topic made to vent..But to draw attention. And look at what i wrote.

Its exactly what happened. Stroking the ego or be mad.

And i did not say "Practice on depression" but practice on RPing.

If you tell me that you complain about not finding enough people, yet at the same time could not be bothered to make yourself special enough to make people want to rp with you?

Well then fuck you.

I can be a very good rp partner, or a very bad one. Depending on my current health and condition. But the people know that and know its worth the effort. Because i´m willing to try. And that i can be bloody great when the time hits.

If you cant put in that effort..Then by all means stop rping, and walk out.

Because in the end there is a sad but simple truth:
You want something`? Work for it. Submissive does not mean inactive.

And the sooner some people on this website get that? The fucking better.

Tower19

10/15/16 07:42PM

Bleeding, you should look up cute cat gifs to stop yer dee pretion

BrickKnight

10/16/16 04:27AM

Killua said:
See..People this is what i mean when i make my "special Snowflake" remark. Do not get me wrong: I´m very sympathetic to your problem here. You do not find an rp partner and that sucks.

Been there.

But really let me ask you something: You say yourself that the female population on this website is pretty small..Substract the non-futa, non rping, non subs from this and you get a handful.

Ok fine. But really: What does it get anyone to complain about it? Again i´m sympathetic to your problem, but your reaction is the typical: "Its not about me so i have to complain like a 5 year old" reaction. People cum and go on this website, thats how its always been. going on the forum, complaining that you are done with RPing (which we all know you will pick up in a week again) will not magically change the problem. Furthermore there will just be people, stroking your ego instead of your member OR they will be pissed because you basically told them you will fuck off.

Now hear me out on this: Instead of focusing on how this is so not working for you..How about you make it work?

You are boring? Work on your RP´s. Be more creative and elaborate. You like an indepth story? Focus on that to bind women to you.

Shit i had RP´s going on for over 6 months because i kind of had a good idea. And sure you cant always be at your best, but its crystal clear that most of us stick to a few favorites right? Dont deny it, thats true. considering that the dominant female population is already so small, and their inboxes are basically blowing up, the best way to act is to be a bit more interesting.

If you cant do that? Tough shit.

You think other people get an invitation to an rp every fucking day? 8/10 I get no response to my Chat requests. Thats life.

Sounding like an asshole here, i know. But sometimes the problem is not with others, but rather your own lack of will to actually make a change in the boundaries you are given.

Get to work sub

PS: I suffer from depression myself. And its brutal. But letting yourself down will get you nowhere. If you wanna be a sub thats ok, but at least grab yourself by the balls and pull up

A-fuckin-men brother.

Midnas_Hand

10/16/16 09:51AM

BleedingLegend said:
Ok I am gonna make this sob story short so there isn't a lot of this boohoo woe is me bullshit.
Also why am I posting this?
Because there are people that RP with me and put up with my bull shit, and this is pretty much me saying "You'd be better off finding someone else."

Basically I suck goodbye
Be back to rping maybe

If you want the whole cry baby explanation why then here.

I am a sub, and as a sub, I don't get that much attention on here for RPs to get my rocks off. So I have had to change or completely ignore my own fetishes and do stuff in rps I generally find not appealing. I am also not good at coming up with plots for rps, I can't think up this shit on the fly like some people can. I mean it takes me almost a full fucking hour to come up with one rp idea. And the idea I usually come up with is not what the other person likes. I hate doming. HATE IT. Which sucks because it seems like every girl on this site gets supper wet from being treated like some jerk offs property. Also I am not into futa...which makes things even MORE complicated. And I am boring, really boring. I had sex one time, it was barely even sex. So I am not that creative, I don't know a lot of the terminology (it baffles me that sex has terminology). I only really like two RPs I've done. I am dealing with hard case depression, I seem to be girl repellent IRL, so a serious lack of confidence. I am very empathetic, which causes issues trust me. Its the biggest reason why I hate to dom. I tend to value back story and character progression over the "good stuff". Theres more but I fell like I am making myself out as a giant piss ant already. You get the picture. I hope.

...christ.

Shut up and fap. We'll TRY to help, dipshit.

DarkCinder

10/16/16 02:33PM

Bleeding, listen man. I understand were you coming from but at the same we all came here to get from BS in the real world and to explore are pevertness with like minded people. Now I don't get on here that much nor am I the best at RP, yeah there not to many women be on here but the ones that do be on here are fun to RP with like Kuna, while naturally I'm very Dom guy I do not being sub and having her way with me...that bit on sadist\masochist side of things but it's both a turn and having fun on both sides.