I got the idea for this topic from an answer I saw in a different thread, and it's primarily targeted towards other males. Answers from females welcome too.

Is sex with females disappointing for you? The females I've had do the usual stuff but it seemed like I was doing all the work. I mean I enjoyed it, it feels good and all but I've got no real incentive to make her cum when she seems uninterested in doing anything to make herself, or me, cum. Anybody else got this problem?

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Strange man is using strange words that i can not understand in this context..

Me are confused

*virgin starts to whistle a tune*

*whistles along*

Yes! The only girl I ever did it with was a total dead fish. And she must have enjoyed it cause she sprayed like about 4 minutes into it. And THEN after that she fucking left me out to dry. Needless to say was that she was a very selfish lover. My first and so far only experience was not a good one. I know I shouldn't complain. I mean, i still got to have sex and all. But when the only person that got any real satisfaction out of it was only one of us. I couldn't help but feel a like pissed off.

Its the job of the male to do 95% of the work, females have already enough to do when they giving birth, a male doesnt do shit while a woman is giving birth do they?

Giving birth is for procreation, if he is talking about for pleasure that doesn't really matter lmao

Well, when you put it like that. I guess you got a point. Fuck.
Never thought of that.

Lovers who think only of themselves and don't bother to help the other person cum? Surely not. And I'm pretty sure it's a scientific fact that everyone is perfect at sex right from their first time.

Ahem. I think 'sex' in this context is being confused with 'sex with someone who either isn't interested or experienced enough to make a favourable impression'. Simple solutions: a) change partners; b) be good enough to get the other person more involved.

I would at least make sure the other person is satisfied before I would call it "done"

My point is, after one is satisfied, it would be common courtesy to give the other the same experience

Amen

I agree here, but its seks, you get both pleasured at the same time, her vagina is being stimulated and your dick is being stimulated, if it wasnt like that you wouldnt be able to cum lmao, cum is generated by pleasure

Double woot, that it is