I know what you mean, Tower, sometimes you just cum better than others. In my case not really to the point of tears, but the 'warm fuzzies' is a good description for some of the more intense occasions.
BleedingLegend, two possibilities: either find a girl who actually wants to enjoy it; or get good enough for the girl to actually enjoy it. Either way, nothing to stop you perfecting your one-hand tango technique in the meantime!