probably somewhere in-between depending on my behaviour. It's nice having someone be sweet to you because you're good, and also nice having someone be rougher or harsher when you're bad. Just depends on myself or and the dom's mood ultimately.
Well personaly i think i have a very good mix With My boyfriend. Out of bed he is always super cute with me and do things for me but in bed... i get blind folded and tied up with My hands and then he pretty much just go for it and go hard and fast Till im sore but he still whisper sweet things to me now and then and caress me and so on.. but mostly dominant wich is hot