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I'm from the US and I've been around the world, literally (as in physically via planes etc.) multiple times, and I'm currently a teacher in Japan. Distance is not a factor to me. The world is actually very small to me now. And like most people have said, yeah, I pretty much don't care how I meet someone if we really click. In fact, it would be kind of funny and cute to have to come up with a cover story for friends/family.
"Okay so we can't let everyone know we're fapping/schlicking to incest/futanari/tentacle/etc. hentai together, so we met playing -insert MMO or facebook game here- okay?"
Incidentally, if there's a nice girl (or someone who identifies themselves as a 'her') on here who might want to have a free room in Japan to stay in, by all means, shoot me a PM and we'll see where it takes us~ <3