Agreed I wanted to say something but didn't want to seem rude. But anyways, I myself being more or less a male Dom, I haven't had too much luck with finding female subs, I seem to find a lot more male subs or dominant females on the forum, not to say fem subs don't exist or that I haven't seen any, I'm just saying that from my experience that I haven't encountered alot of them.

I can't say I've seen a lot of Dom/mes at all, not to say they aren't there, just that their less common. I personally can do either, as long as things don't get too extreme.

I am submissive and intimidate easily in nature, but I am very dominating sexual wise for whatever reason I can't quite explain it *shrugs*

im a dom myself. but the fornas much of an issue as you say finding dominant males is, for a good portion of us its also difficult to find good subs (ie the kind that are just there for pretend bs)

Pretend BS? What do you mean?