it seems that i cant really pass up the idea anymore... im really into the idea of bondage to be honest, is there any males here who have been sub or any female dommes here who would go into explaining and intriguing my curiosity?

Its about not having control.

www.evilmonk.org/A/creed.cfm

Look through that entire site, it is your bible to the BDSM scene.

Ah the old 50 shades of grey trap. All men fall victim to it at some point. Myself included. The 1st thing u MUST remember is safety. If u eant to do this with a partner i reccomend looking into taking a crash course woth a professional (im actually not joking because you need to know your limits with BDSM. there are places you can visit that teach u all u need to know to ensure that both u and your partner get the full enjoyment out of BDSM but stay safe in the mean time. Id say that everything sexual is worth trying at least once so go for it i say. My girlfriend is a dominant.Shes the sweetest and most cuddliest and luvvy duvvy girl out of the bedroom tho. Shes only 5"11 and im 6"5 but in the bedroom im hers. If she really excited she even alls me her bitch XD. The best way to describe her is like Michelle out of the American Pie films (except without the geeky tone of voice) XD but yes even tried bonfange too and she BLEW MY MIND XD. So basically id say go for it but take serious consideration in the official crash course 1st. Better safe than asphyxiated.

very true footworshipper95, thanks, ill also look into the site, cheers femme. and GOD NO! not that 50 shades of bullshit about abusive relationship crap! i got into the curiousity of it from a webcomic called sunstone actually, as well as my subtle enjoyments for pain in bed etc... plus i want to try anything once so.

I often like to play submissive to lure my partner into a false sense of security, only to turn domme on them when they think they have me cowed. It's kind of a game for me. If they can restrain me, they've earned my submission. If they can't, I rapidly turn the tables and take over the show.

ooh can't wait to see fifty shades of grey next month

I never got into BDSM, although the idea has cross my mind before.

50 shades of grey is as accurate as twilight is with vampires

50 Shades of Grey is a Twilight fanfiction.