Footworshipper95
12/15/14 02:21PM
REALLY NEED HELP
Hi guys recently ive had somethimg on my mind. A few days ago me and my sister were cuddling on the couch. we're not blood related but weve been best friends since we were born tbh. I have noone to really call family at all except her so we have unofficially adopted eachother as bro and sis.. the cuddling is coz we are really close to eachother ik there are siblings who find it weird to cuddle the other but me and her are almost literally joined to the hip. We do EVERYTHING together. We live, eat, go out(she has to hold my hand when we do, dont get me wrong shes not messed up or weird in ANY way she has a slight nervous disposition around people, but whrn the two of us are alone she is completely relaxed) go to uni(i even took a gap year so we could both go at the same time, coz she was scared to go on her own), sometimes even sleep in the same bed if one of us is ill or upset. I love the bones of her she is my little sis afterall xx Anyways we were cuddling up on the couch and we were talking. My sis has recently come out as bi. She has a GF who lives in the US atm, which is why i think she clings to me even more. We were.talking about her relationship and she told me that she had never slept with a guy in her life(thats no surprise to me, shes even more nervous around guys than girls, im the only guy shell even talk to happily). The next thing she said to me took me aback a little. She said that she would like to try it at least once. She asked me if i would 'help her out'. She apparently had discussed it all with her GF and she is content with it. I love my sister and would do absolutely anything to see her happy. Even this. Ive never seen her in a sexual way at all she has always been my little sis.ik technically its not illegal because we are not blood related siblings but the feelings are all there. On the other hand even if we were blood related i think id go through with it anyway to see her happy. Idk i just need your views guys. Plz no vulgar comments like get in there and show her a good time or what are you complaining about a hot girl wanys to fuck you because i do see jer as my sister dont forget. Also please no comments like what tje fuck is wrong with you shes your sister coz as ive said before biologically its not incest ^^. And yes i did say that i would probably go through with it even if it was but thats not me being a perv its just because my sis is the only family i have and i would do anything ANYTHING for her. One last thing i know my feelings and no we are not in love and in denial about how we see eachother, we do everything that bros and sisses do and weve talked about our bond many times in the past. I just want to know genuinely what are your opinions on the matter...
DarkShadow12
12/15/14 02:26PM
Footworshipper95 said:
Hi guys recently ive had somethimg on my mind. A few days ago me and my sister were cuddling on the couch. we're not blood related but weve been best friends since we were born tbh. I have noone to really call family at all except her so we have unofficially adopted eachother as bro and sis.. the cuddling is coz we are really close to eachother ik there are siblings who find it weird to cuddle the other but me and her are almost literally joined to the hip. We do EVERYTHING together. We live, eat, go out(she has to hold my hand when we do, dont get me wrong shes not messed up or weird in ANY way she has a slight nervous disposition around people, but whrn the two of us are alone she is completely relaxed) go to uni(i even took a gap year so we could both go at the same time, coz she was scared to go on her own), sometimes even sleep in the same bed if one of us is ill or upset. I love the bones of her she is my little sis afterall xx Anyways we were cuddling up on the couch and we were talking. My sis has recently come out as bi. She has a GF who lives in the US atm, which is why i think she clings to me even more. We were.talking about her relationship and she told me that she had never slept with a guy in her life(thats no surprise to me, shes even more nervous around guys than girls, im the only guy shell even talk to happily). The next thing she said to me took me aback a little. She said that she would like to try it at least once. She asked me if i would 'help her out'. She apparently had discussed it all with her GF and she is content with it. I love my sister and would do absolutely anything to see her happy. Even this. Ive never seen her in a sexual way at all she has always been my little sis.ik technically its not illegal because we are not blood related siblings but the feelings are all there. On the other hand even if we were blood related i think id go through with it anyway to see her happy. Idk i just need your views guys. Plz no vulgar comments like get in there and show her a good time or what are you complaining about a hot girl wanys to fuck you because i do see jer as my sister dont forget. Also please no comments like what tje fuck is wrong with you shes your sister coz as ive said before biologically its not incest ^^. And yes i did say that i would probably go through with it even if it was but thats not me being a perv its just because my sis is the only family i have and i would do anything ANYTHING for her. One last thing i know my feelings and no we are not in love and in denial about how we see eachother, we do everything that bros and sisses do and weve talked about our bond many times in the past. I just want to know genuinely what are your opinions on the matter...


Okay....do me a favor and break it all down for me...because i understood that ur non blooded sister is bi an has a gf and u have some sort of attraction to her
bl00dyVugz
12/15/14 02:34PM
Well as you say yourself, you would do it even if you two were related. And since you're not, you needn't feel guilty about it at all. I'm just wondering how your relation got started, like, you don't tell your friend "Hey let's act like bro and sis from now on", do you?
Footworshipper95
12/15/14 02:35PM
Ok im not attracted to her. Shes my sister and i have all those brotherly feelings towards her. She wants me to have sex with her solely because she jas never been with another man. She wont interact with other men shes too shy let alone have sex. Im the only guy shes comfortable around.She says im the only one that she trusts enough to take jer virginity. Im not in love with her nor is she with me weve talked openly about our relationship all the time....
Footworshipper95
12/15/14 02:37PM
@BllodyVugs haha no it wasnt like that. Its built up over many years of twists and turns. Its really personal to us both and i couldnt say what has happened in detail but she calls me bro and i call her sis as ive said why ^^
DarkShadow12
12/15/14 02:41PM
Footworshipper95 said:
@BllodyVugs haha no it wasnt like that. Its built up over many years of twists and turns. Its really personal to us both and i couldnt say what has happened in detail but she calls me bro and i call her sis as ive said why ^^


Well yeah, im not sure how to deal with this...she needs to know that it isnt ethical to have sex with family memebers....use to be legal to marry cousins now it isnt, but this is the worst case scenario..you may not be related but still its unethical...she does understand this right?
Footworshipper95
12/15/14 02:48PM
Yup she does but its just a 2 time thing. Ik shed never be able to let another guy touch her without getting scared thats why she has asked me coz she trusts only me and her GF.
Footworshipper95
12/15/14 02:48PM
1 time thing i meant^^
DarkShadow12
12/15/14 02:57PM
Footworshipper95 said:
1 time thing i meant^^


I do feel sorry for her...but...even though shes scared of other men its not worth breaking that principle of incest which is worse choice here.
Gloom
12/15/14 02:57PM
Footworshipper95 said:
1 time thing i meant^^

You can edit comments, you know.
Footworshipper95
12/15/14 03:04PM
@DarkShadow i really understand you mate, thats great advice but, is it incest really. I know legally no but on morality and principle yes. Thats the debate im having with myself...
DarkShadow12
12/15/14 03:10PM
Footworshipper95 said:
@DarkShadow i really understand you mate, thats great advice but, is it incest really. I know legally no but on morality and principle yes. Thats the debate im having with myself...


Look even if she was adopted sister or sister in law, its still incest. If your related in a way im pretty sure its incest. Though if it was distances apart then im not sure on that. I see ur in the difficult spot here and you turn to us for advice, which i do see as the best place to go for advice instead of family members.

All i can say is that I hope ur make the right choice here, for both u and your relative sister. Just remember that either choice has a consequences but one is worse then the other.
Footworshipper95
12/15/14 03:12PM
Ik mate thx. I dont think in.legal terms it is unless you have that blood connection. Anyway thx mate for the advice. You can see how confused my head is atm
DarkShadow12
12/15/14 03:14PM
Footworshipper95 said:
Ik mate thx. I dont think in.legal terms it is unless you have that blood connection. Anyway thx mate for the advice. You can see how confused my head is atm


Well..i rather not see two good people make the wrong choice here, i know you both care for each other as siblings, just hope u make the right choice here...have a plesent day and if u ever need more advice im here.
Footworshipper95
12/15/14 03:22PM
Thx mate i will. And again thx for being so understanding. Most people would troll this like fuck but, idk if you have siblings, in spite of everything im so protective over her and love her more than anything. After some of the shit shes been through in the past she deserves to be happy. Ik it sounds like we are a bit too close for brother and sister but thats because shes been so hurt un the past that im the only person she will trust and cling to, literally shes 18 years old but she never lets go of my arm if we are ever out of the house. Even in uni i have to sit next to her and hold her hand under the desk. Personally i dont care if i have to do that for her if she feels safe and if
anyone ever said anything mocking about it they'd be hospitalised. I just wanted you to understand why she would ask me in the first place
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