We are all animals descended from chimpanzees/bonobo's, "perversion" is actually natural animal behavior that we repress because apparently we are so much better... yet this repression limits understanding that could actually lead to better development.
Some hide "perversion" better than others that's all, some attempt to control it more strongly than others, but we are all perverted depending upon the standard for our peerage group (since norms differ depending on country and age group , culture etc) and comparing against our fellow man is a gigantic waste of time which could be better spent elsewhere.
Women are pretty much the same as men, in every way, Science has already proven that there are just as many women who act with masculine traits (whatever those are) as there are men who act with feminine traits (whatever those are), the differences are very small in reality, once you get past all the bullshit social conditioning that is imposed upon each gender to enforce the male vs female dichotomy to distract us from the important things.
So yeah, a giant "who the fuck cares" from me.