FloppyDisc
01/31/24 07:24AM
What do you think about friend(s) with benefits?
I was wondering how does it affects relationship and the dynamic of couple of people and even outlook of those.
nonameidiot
01/31/24 07:25AM
i don't have any but honestly i wouldn't care about the dynamic/relationship.
Meinstockins
01/31/24 07:26AM
I mean, in theory it sounds like a great idea but in reality, I reckon it gets super messy
FloppyDisc
01/31/24 07:30AM
Meinstockins said:
I mean, in theory it sounds like a great idea but in reality, I reckon it gets super messy


Just still treat them as a friend and not a sexual objective for you to exploit and abuse.
Meinstockins
01/31/24 07:34AM
FloppyDisc said:
Meinstockins said:
I mean, in theory it sounds like a great idea but in reality, I reckon it gets super messy


Just still treat them as a friend and not a sexual objective for you to exploit and abuse.


I was thinking it would get messy due to romantic interest but sure, that's a thing too
FloppyDisc
01/31/24 07:35AM
Meinstockins said:
FloppyDisc said:
Meinstockins said:
I mean, in theory it sounds like a great idea but in reality, I reckon it gets super messy


Just still treat them as a friend and not a sexual objective for you to exploit and abuse.


I was thinking it would get messy due to romantic interest but sure, that's a thing too


I mean, that depends if your friend agrees to stay as friend.
Meinstockins
01/31/24 07:37AM
FloppyDisc said:
Meinstockins said:
FloppyDisc said:
Meinstockins said:
I mean, in theory it sounds like a great idea but in reality, I reckon it gets super messy


Just still treat them as a friend and not a sexual objective for you to exploit and abuse.


I was thinking it would get messy due to romantic interest but sure, that's a thing too


I mean, that depends if your friend agrees to stay as friend.


I don't think it'll ever be that simple lol
BottomlessV
01/31/24 07:52AM
I love the idea of it, but I think reality would be awkward.

I don't even know what would lead to me fucking a friend in the first place.

Has to be 100% the right conditions.
Meinstockins
01/31/24 07:53AM
BottomlessV said:
I love the idea of it, but I think reality would be awkward.

I don't even know what would lead to me fucking a friend in the first place.

Has to be 100% the right conditions.


Alchohol is most likely 100% involved :3
BottomlessV
01/31/24 07:54AM
Meinstockins said:
BottomlessV said:
I love the idea of it, but I think reality would be awkward.

I don't even know what would lead to me fucking a friend in the first place.

Has to be 100% the right conditions.


Alchohol is most likely 100% involved :3


The problem is that I don't drink :s

My friend would have to be smashed and I would have to be incredibly horny, which rarely happens.
Meinstockins
01/31/24 07:57AM
BottomlessV said:
Meinstockins said:
BottomlessV said:
I love the idea of it, but I think reality would be awkward.

I don't even know what would lead to me fucking a friend in the first place.

Has to be 100% the right conditions.


Alchohol is most likely 100% involved :3


The problem is that I don't drink :s

My friend would have to be smashed and I would have to be incredibly horny, which rarely happens.


Fair, an alternative would be someone you had sex with and then became friends after?
BottomlessV
01/31/24 08:00AM
Meinstockins said:

Fair, an alternative would be someone you had sex with and then became friends after?


Not sure about that. I am still a virgin and I am not exactly looking for the first opportunity to have sex, so that could be difficult, but not entirely out of the picture. :)

Meinstockins
01/31/24 08:02AM
BottomlessV said:
Meinstockins said:

Fair, an alternative would be someone you had sex with and then became friends after?


Not sure about that. I am still a virgin and I am not exactly looking for the first opportunity to have sex, so that could be difficult, but not entirely out of the picture. :)



Yeah, I'm not exactly looking for a relationship either atm but horny mind go brrr you know~
MaskedBreeder
01/31/24 08:04AM
I've had one. It's fun, but it gets messy eventually. In my case, she caught feelings eventually, and then I caught feelings, but it never happened at the same time.

We're still friends though, just not with benefits.
Nastytalker
01/31/24 08:31AM
They can be a lot of fun, if done properly. Proper communication and boundaries can make for lasting memories beyond sex. Mine was very good to me when we were together until I moved away.
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