How do gay people even meet each other in real life?
It’s got to be a lot easier for straight people because of the lack of social pressure. But there’s a stigma for gay people.
I’m gay and closeted but even if I wasn’t closeted to my family, I don’t think I would ever be confident enough to openly state my sexuality to people I don’t know. And even if I was, how am I even supposed to figure out who’s gay? Vibes? I can have my suspicions but I would never want to openly ask someone in case I’m wrong.
It’s unfair that love is so much harder for gay people because we can’t say who we are without judgement. You would have to really not care about what others think about you to even get close to dating, let alone flirting. I feel like I’m doomed to miss out on a core part of the human experience because of fear, and that sucks.
Does anyone have any good advice, or any other thoughts?
I’m gay and closeted but even if I wasn’t closeted to my family, I don’t think I would ever be confident enough to openly state my sexuality to people I don’t know. And even if I was, how am I even supposed to figure out who’s gay? Vibes? I can have my suspicions but I would never want to openly ask someone in case I’m wrong.
It’s unfair that love is so much harder for gay people because we can’t say who we are without judgement. You would have to really not care about what others think about you to even get close to dating, let alone flirting. I feel like I’m doomed to miss out on a core part of the human experience because of fear, and that sucks.
Does anyone have any good advice, or any other thoughts?