So, question for the guys only, if you had a gf or a wife who likes to wear revealing clothes, would that sit uncomfortably with you? Or would you like her to flaunt it since she got it?

Because as a woman I like to show my body off, particularly since I put so much effort into it and I notice many guys who date women with my mentality feel uncomfortable.

the guys who get insecure over what their women wear are losers and don’t deserve to be in a relationship

Im okay with it. You know what they say "Just enjoy the view".

No, I wouldn't mind. If she likes wearing that clothing I want her to be happy with how she looks. If you look good, might as well show it off. I trust her to not do anything untrustworthy

My so sometimes wears revealing clothes and so do I. We have two different reactions when it happens.

I drool over her, she fluants me like a kid who got a new toy that theyll never share. Where both women

One of my exes didnt mind if I wore revealing clothes, he just would be extra cautious if other guys stared to long as he would say.

That I do understand, what I dont is guys getting insecure over it. Like I am with you because I chose to be with you.

my first ever ex though, was unbearable, no revealing clothing at all. I was to only due it for him or fancy nights out. I dont understand why, Im personally thinking he was rasied very "traditionally" by his very "traditional" father.

Though the ex who didnt mind, he only worried because his previous girlfriend loved to be flirted with and cheated on him after he said he was uncomfurtable with it.

The insecurity stems from trust issues, both with their partner and/or the establishment they're going to. The logic that you're with someone because you chose to be is an okay argument, but then why do you require the attention (and by extent, validation) from others who aren't your spouse?

Not doing it for others, doing it for myself. I like looking good.

As I mentioned, doing it for yourself (i.e validation), question is why do you need validation from people who theoretically shouldn't be as important as your spouse?

thats like saying, why you dress well? no ones opinion matters except your significant other. Why do you take a put on make up? no ones opinion matters except your significant other. I dont live for my significant other, I live for him AND for me.

It's not really what I'm saying at all, I don't think one should entirely base their perceptions on the perspectives of others, spouse or not. Though other perspectives are important to remain grounded in your own.

I'm not saying you can't dress up when you go out, that's your prerogative. For many men, based on our understandings of other men, and our general experiences, I don't find the insecurity unwarranted for some people.

maybe it's because i'm sleep deprived but i genuinely fail to see your point... if someone dresses in revealing clothes obviously they're doing it for themselves. i don't due to my own insecurities about my appearances but i know that if i could i'd dress in skimpy skirts and crop tops, because i think they're pretty and not for attention/validation from strangers???

But what is being pretty? Like in order for something be visually pretty, it has to be seen and acknowledged. Be it by yourself in a mirror or else wise.

People dress up for themselves generally, though what that means is very different depending on the individual. Some dress to impress, to ingratiate themselves in a particular circle, and though it is inherently self-serving, it leans on how other people perceive you.

I want my partner to feel free, beautiful and sexy, what she wears has nothing to do with me. It’s her body and she decides what to do with it as long as it’s not an actual threat to her safety obviously (like running into a crowd butt naked or clothes made of barbed wire, radio active stuff and so on).

You should not ask advice from guys on what to wear. If you enjoy it do it, don’t let other people decide that for you..
if they feel uncomfortable they’re not the right people to be around