I’ve seen people say this a couple times but pegging has only ever been a wholesome and fun act to me.
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But is it a common perception that pegging is supposed to be a humiliating act for the man? Idk sounds kinda homophonic to me

Well, it is homophonic. Being submissive can cross into wanting to be humiliated. Also, for the heck of it I'm gonna post this. post #4339486

Inherently no but malesub is generally considered humiliating due to societal norms and all that

I guess because there’s a notion of a reciever being a woman and therefore something feminine and inferior then yes, generally dudes would feel like their masculinity would be challenged.
There’s also the view that a male bottom is inferior than the male top, lile a top is dominant, stronger and better?

I don’t share any of these views though, i love pegging and being a bottom, sometimes powerbottom.

Sure it can be humiliating for some. The same goes for literally anything. If you're not into something (on a conscious level) and you build up your pride around not having done it, then the idea of doing it will logically feel humiliating to you.

It could be pegging. It could be anal. It could be unprotected sex. It could be futanari. It could be calling someone 'mommy' or 'daddy' or what have you. It could be virtually anything for virtually any reason. (And chances are some of those are going to be sexist or homophobic, because of course they are.)

Likewise, no particular activity is wholesome in and of itself. It's about what makes everyone involved happy and fulfilled at every step, and that could happen to be pegging just as well as CNC or vanilla sex.

Personally, I don't find pegging inherently humiliating, nor do I find it inherently wholesome. But with male penetrating female being the most 'natural' kind of intercourse, I can see how a number of people come to the former point of view.

I don’t think it’s inherently wholesome but it is what I pictured when I think of pegging and was wondering if that’s not the norm

It’s essentially just like normal sex. Sure you can make it cute but it’s very dependent on the couple

Btw love the name CuteDom

Huh I mean sure but I guess I’ve just never thought of someone less just because they’re a sub. I mean a ton of subs like being humiliated but I only enjoy it in a playful manner (for the most part) but hmm are male subs usually feeling that?

Thank you! Though I’d definitely prefer sexy, hot or even menacing… most people would use cute to describe me so I kinda just role with it

Also was hoping people would
Get in a gal cuz I don’t like the word femdom

I think traditionally yes it’s very tied to humiliation but with how society is changing we’re getting increasing acceptance so it’s becoming more wholesome. I’ve seen a lot of more wholesome subs in the past few years.

Why don’t you like the word femdom btw

Oh it’s a weird word. Some people will use the word as a kink and some as a term for someone. Either way it’s just weird like I’m a dom why do you have to specify I’m a gal? Dom doesn’t automatically mean dude

Straight guys use it so they don’t seem gay and I don’t wanna be apart of that

I get your sentiment but it’s kinda just impractical to act like we aren’t a niche group. Personally I’ve grown to really like the term domme

Gonna hard disagree on the straight part. While men coping about their sexuality is pathetic I’ve met enough straight sub men who get bullied for it to be sympathetic.

I mean sure but it’s also just a gender thing to me, I don’t like being referred to with gendered terms in general

But yeah the main reason I don’t like the term is I just don’t see the need to specify I’m a girl and a dom at the same time. I’m a dom and that has nothing to do with my gender

Sure I’ll get more mail if I comment something about going a female dom but then what’s the point? I want someone to send me mail cuz they like my comment not cuz I don’t have a dick

Ooo if it’s a general thing then it’s completely valid yeah

Well, traditionally guys have been seen more as the protector of their loved ones, they need to be tough, successful, tall, and so on. Showing vulnerability has always been a big no-no for a lot of them because vulnerability implies weakness. And if you're seen as weak, then you'd be considered an easy target, unable to protect yourself or others. It's something that stretches back far into the roots of the human race and is part of why guys tend to suck at expressing their emotions.

Being pegged, no matter how private the act is, is still putting a guy in an extremely vulnerable position, which can be very humiliating since guys tend to be hardwired to avoid being vulnerable as best as possible.