4 some reason i keep getting a message saying i cant send mail yet. why?

Hmm maybe it's something to do with captcha?

It's because your trust level isn't high enough.

Probably because your account as had zero activity before now. Interact a little.

Also, capitalize your I's when referring to yourself. And always capitalize the first letter after a period/start of a sentence.

by that do u mean interact via forums and not messaging people?

Yeah that is what they meant

Hm

Let me guess, you made a bunch of comment where said "Anyone".

Forums and comments, yeah. Just use the site itself.

So would using this work

I'm not understanding this. ^ ?