Rule 34 - Should I continue with the relationship?

bitch_maker

11/23/23 02:12AM

Should I continue with the relationship?

Guys, I am dating a girl who I adore and whole heartedly love. But I found out she has an incredibly high body count, like its crazy. She has been passed around by over 100 guys, I am not exaggerating. Like she literally had been with 4 and 5 guys in one night. And I am curious about what should I do? Should I continue with the relationship? Or call it off? I truly love her though.

LuckyGuy_RP

11/23/23 02:14AM

bitch_maker said:
Guys, I am dating a girl who I adore and whole heartedly love. But I found out she has an incredibly high body count, like its crazy. She has been passed around by over 100 guys, I am not exaggerating. Like she literally had been with 4 and 5 guys in one night. And I am curious about what should I do? Should I continue with the relationship? Or call it off? I truly love her though.

If she's clean, I'd say don't end it. If not, don't get yourself in a bad situation.

Lil_Boytoy

11/23/23 02:15AM

Like, before your relationship? Or during? It's important to set boundaries, if I were you I'd discuss it. Personally I'd be fine with someone who had been with others before, but I know others might not be. Have a talk with her, if you just let this bother you (if it does) but go on with the relationship and never talk about it then it will just drive you two apart. Also, as said above, that too is important

Meinstockins

11/23/23 02:15AM

Your together already, does her having a body count really matter to you that much at this point? Like are you looking at like wife material, mother of your children or what?

bitch_maker

11/23/23 02:16AM

LuckyGuy_RP said:

bitch_maker said:
Guys, I am dating a girl who I adore and whole heartedly love. But I found out she has an incredibly high body count, like its crazy. She has been passed around by over 100 guys, I am not exaggerating. Like she literally had been with 4 and 5 guys in one night. And I am curious about what should I do? Should I continue with the relationship? Or call it off? I truly love her though.

If she's clean, I'd say don't end it. If not, don't get yourself in a bad situation.

Clean as in from stds?

8inchFemboy

11/23/23 02:16AM

Well first of all, does she have the same feelings for you? What's her attitude towards the "body count" subject?

bitch_maker

11/23/23 02:17AM

Lil_Boytoy said:
Like, before your relationship? Or during? It's important to set boundaries, if I were you I'd discuss it. Personally I'd be fine with someone who had been with others before, but I know others might not be. Have a talk with her, if you just let this bother you (if it does) but go on with the relationship and never talk about it then it will just drive you two apart. Also, as said above, that too is important

No, that was all before. Truth be told she is an amazing woman, and very faithful I am 100% sure. I talked to her about it and she admitted she understands if that fact upset me and was open to talking about it at length.

bitch_maker

11/23/23 02:18AM

8inchFemboy said:
Well first of all, does she have the same feelings for you? What's her attitude towards the "body count" subject?

yeah she does and she has been fighting for this relationship to work. She is very understanding about my feelings and very open minded to talk about it at length

bitch_maker

11/23/23 02:19AM

Meinstockins said:
Your together already, does her having a body count really matter to you that much at this point? Like are you looking at like wife material, mother of your children or what?

yeah, I am talking wife material and hopefully mother of my children one day

8inchFemboy

11/23/23 02:21AM

bitch_maker said:

8inchFemboy said:
Well first of all, does she have the same feelings for you? What's her attitude towards the "body count" subject?

yeah she does and she has been fighting for this relationship to work. She is very understanding about my feelings and very open minded to talk about it at length

then keep it going my guy, she sounds like a good person :3

Unspoken_

11/23/23 02:21AM

From what you've said so far, she seems like a pretty great gal, amigo. I can understand why that would make you uncomfortable, but something like that shouldn't cost you a girl who's faithful and genuinely loves you.

Meinstockins

11/23/23 02:24AM

bitch_maker said:

Meinstockins said:
Your together already, does her having a body count really matter to you that much at this point? Like are you looking at like wife material, mother of your children or what?

yeah, I am talking wife material and hopefully mother of my children one day

Then how does it affect your future, if she's faithful to you and feels the same way then there's no reason to throw that away for something that happened in the past, you should enjoy who you both are now and be thankful you found each other :)

bitch_maker

11/23/23 02:30AM

Meinstockins said:

bitch_maker said:

Meinstockins said:
Your together already, does her having a body count really matter to you that much at this point? Like are you looking at like wife material, mother of your children or what?

yeah, I am talking wife material and hopefully mother of my children one day

Then how does it affect your future, if she's faithful to you and feels the same way then there's no reason to throw that away for something that happened in the past, you should enjoy who you both are now and be thankful you found each other :)

I am worried that if we ever have kids that my kids would know their mom had been passed around by over a hundred guys other than their dad and they wold feel ashamed.

ThiccRoboi

11/23/23 02:49AM

bitch_maker said:

Meinstockins said:

bitch_maker said:

Meinstockins said:
Your together already, does her having a body count really matter to you that much at this point? Like are you looking at like wife material, mother of your children or what?

yeah, I am talking wife material and hopefully mother of my children one day

Then how does it affect your future, if she's faithful to you and feels the same way then there's no reason to throw that away for something that happened in the past, you should enjoy who you both are now and be thankful you found each other :)

I am worried that if we ever have kids that my kids would know their mom had been passed around by over a hundred guys other than their dad and they wold feel ashamed.

That's only if you teach them to demonize sex in some way. It's not likely they will come to that conclusion unless you talk bad about it. That's not something you should fear at all unless you feel ashamed of her, which I hope you don't.

8inch-Femboy

11/23/23 02:59AM

bitch_maker said:

Meinstockins said:

bitch_maker said:

Meinstockins said:
Your together already, does her having a body count really matter to you that much at this point? Like are you looking at like wife material, mother of your children or what?

yeah, I am talking wife material and hopefully mother of my children one day

Then how does it affect your future, if she's faithful to you and feels the same way then there's no reason to throw that away for something that happened in the past, you should enjoy who you both are now and be thankful you found each other :)

I am worried that if we ever have kids that my kids would know their mom had been passed around by over a hundred guys other than their dad and they wold feel ashamed.

Are you going to tell them that? Why would they ever find out about it unless you told them?